I read the following comment the other day in a column called "Male Call.''
A woman wrote, "Any woman knows this has always been a problem, but lately it seems worse. I'm talking about constantly getting hit on by guys. I know it's supposed to be flattering and in some circumstances it is, especially if the guy is attractive. But when I'm at the drugstore in sweats and a stocking cap, all I want to do is make my purchase and leave. I don't want to get chatted up by some guy in line. And then they act as if you're a (b-word) when you let them know you are not interested. I guess this isn''t really a question, just an observation. I don't understand why guys can't be more in tune with the situation before making a move.''
The answer was that guys figure if they are rejected by 99 women, one might be receptive so nothing ventured, nothing gained.
Since most of the people who comment on my blog are women, I thought I would ask for their insight. Are you flattered when guys you are not attracted to hit on you? Does it make you feel attractive? Or do you wish they would leave you alone?
And, hey, you guys out there can comment on hitting on women. Bonnie on bottomsmarts.blogspot.com wrote that her readership is something like 60-40 male but her comments are 70-30 female. I wonder why more men don't leave comments?
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