Thursday, September 10, 2020

Sex blankets

 Have you ever heard of sex blankets? I hadn't either until my good girl started looking for one because the sheets were getting wet when she squirted. Kind of sexy although it does create a mess although there are no stains and it just dries.

Basically, they're waterproof blankets but sex blankets has a better ring to it. And they work.

So for all the squirters out there, I recommend them. You don't read much about squirters so I don't know how many there are out there. 

Florida Dom   

Hello again

 Remember me?

It has been much too long since I last wrote. For an update, my good girl and I have been living together with her two puppies for almost six months.

Mergering two households has been a challenge. We still haven't cleared out the garage and a storage shed of all the stuff she brought with her (filling to pods) has been but it has been been a time of bliss to live together after being in a long distance relationship all these years.

The timing has been good and bad. She got here just before things shut down but on the other hand, we didn't expect our first six six months to be spent mainly staying safe. We still haven't eaten in a restaurant or gone to a movie and I still haven't had a haircut but we are staying safe. But I am playing a lot of tennis and she is learning how to play.

I like to go to estate sales (go to if you want to see what is available in your area) or garage sales for various trinkets. One is a sign that says As Long as We Are Together, Everything Will Fall in place. And she gets good spankings.

That is our motto these days.

And hello again to all the friends I met here, including PK, who set up this blog for me. Without this blog, my good girl and I would have never met.

Florida Dom



Do you like this picture?

I think the spankos who call their Dom Sir will like this picture.

Florida Dom

Friday, November 22, 2019

More married women than men report they are satisfied with their sex lives

According to a recent survey published in the Washington Post, married women report greater satisfaction with their sex lives than men.
Don't know what to make of that but I thought I'd pass it on.
Curious what my readers think. Hopefully I still have readers since I haven't posted very often lately.
I hope to do better in the future.
Florida Dom

Wednesday, June 26, 2019

My good girl is a lawyer

I know it is forever since I have written but I couldn't really write about the main thing in our lives the past few months. After she was downsized, she decided to take the bar exam about a decade of graduating from law school and deciding she didn't want to practice law.

She decided that she would try to pass the bar to make her more employable. Finding a new job
in your 50s isn't easy. So she took an online refresher course which meant months of being at the computer 12 hours a day or so. Of course, this cut back on our play time when I did visit and even having play time on the phone. She was too focused on studying and I understood.

But I didn't want to write about it if she didn't pass. Well, I have good news. She PASSED and
was sworn as a lawyer recently. I can't tell you how proud I am of her. I've always loved the dynamic of have a smart woman who is submissive because so many people think submission is a weakness but it is really a strength that she is willing to give herself to me.

And we have started to play more and she has felt the sting of the riding crop, which is usually part of our foreplay. She even likes to feel that sting between her legs. So we are having good times again.

 Meanwhile, we are now making plans for her to move here to Florida with her two dogs by next year. We did spend about four months together last year after I had surgery to clear out an artery and we both want to live together instead of just visiting.

We are looking forward to that future and I hope I still have some readers after being away for so long. Will now try to post more and again interact with my fellow bloggers.



Saturday, March 30, 2019

Panty list

We have our rituals and one of them comes at the start of the month when I send her the panty list she is to wear for the month. I just finished it for April and thought I'd share it.
She likes knowing she is wearing the panties I picked out for her and reminds me near the end of the month that she needs a new list.
It is one of the ways she is submissive to me or, as we call it, SSO -- Serve, Submit and Obey.
It may seem like a minor thing but it part of our lifestyle.
Hope all is well with all of the bloggers and hope you are all doing well.
Florida Dom . 

Wednesday, February 13, 2019

New book on female sexuality

I was browsing the new books section at the library the other day and came across a book entitled: "Untrue: Why nearly everything we believe about women, lust and infidelity is wrong and how the new science can set us free."
It was written by a woman -- Wednesday Martin -- with a PhD from Yale so it is a serious book.
It talks about sexuality thousands of years ago and says the invention of the plough was bad for women's sex lives. Sounds crazy but the thesis is that men being stronger were better at using a
plough and women became more dependent.
Another theme is that women are wired for variety in sex.
One interesting quote: "Men are more likely to report that they are sexually satisfied if they get sex reguarly from their long term partners, women are another story."
It says married women who seek new men in their lives "aren't looking for an exit strategy or a new husband." What they were looking for was "great sex."
And the author questions the thesis that men have stronger sex drives than women do.
A review by the Atlantic says the book is "part anifesto, part cultural anthropology, part literary criticism, part memoir."
It says the book "veers in a number of directions in pursuit of proving Martin's thesis, but never abruptly or in an order that feels jarring."
My take on all this is that what many women needs are husbands who are more attentive to their needs in the bedroom.
Anyway, I thought I'd bring it to you attention. It came out last September but I didn't hear about it at the time.