Thursday, June 30, 2016

Doctors say shaving your pubic hair is not a good idea

I know many of you shave, some because you are told to and others because they feel it's good hygine and makes them feel clean down there.
Well, here's a New York Times article say doctors think that shaving actually causes more infections and is bad for hygiene.
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2016/06/29/most-women-prefer-to-go-bare-citing-hygiene-and-baffling-doctors/?hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&clickSource=story-heading&module=mini-moth&region=top-stories-below&WT.nav=top-stories-below
I don't believe in women shaving because I think hair down there is sexy and a sign of a sexually mature woman so my good girl doesn't shave.
Will be interested in hearing what you think about shaving.
FD  

Wednesday, June 29, 2016

Seventh Anniversary

It was seven years ago last night that I started this blog with my first post and I want to thank all my followers and those who are kind enough to comment who have given me the motivation to keep it going.
I've told the story in the past how I happened to start blogging but since there are many newcomers to our little world, I will repeat it. I started off as a lurker until I was convinced to sign up by Bonnie's Love our Lurkers Day. Once I started commenting, I started to meet people and one thing led to another and I wrote some stories for PK until she convinced me to start my own blog to publish my stories.
I never dreamed when I started that I would post over 800 times and have over 400 followers. Then as now, many of the bloggers are women I didn't know if they would relate to my comments. But I figured I had nothing to lose. Unfortunately, I didn't keep the stories going but blog about all sorts of stuff and it seems to have found an audience.
It would not be an understatement to say that blogging has changed my life. I have become friends with many bloggers and met three of them although one has stopped blogging. It is always sad to see some of the bloggers leave our community -- and more than one has died -- but times change. And it's great that some of the bloggers who were here when I started like PK and Ronnie are still here.
And, of course, blogging led to me to meet the love of my life, my good girl five years ago. We are still in an LDR but cherish the time we spend together. We have had such good times together. It is always wonderful to love and be loved.
And the blogging community has changed or maybe I find more blogs. Back in day, the bloggers were mostly women who were spankos. And many of them had waited years before they admitted to themselves that they were spankos. Now we have young women who embrace their love of being a spanko when they are barely out of thei teens and I welcome them to our little world.
And BDSM seems to becoming more mainstream. Shades of Grey was terrible but it did introduce more women to the lifestyle. And there was a movie The Submission of Emma Marx along with a sequel about the lifestyle. They were originally made as porn movies but there are soft core versions that are shown on cable. And Showtime just finished a series called Submission. They all have their faults but at least they show submission. If you remember the movie 8 1-2 weeks and hadn't read the novel, you wouldn't have known it was about submission.
And in the beginning, the blogs were more about women submitting to men. Now we have a of of Femdom blogs with men submitting to women and being locked in cock cages by the women in their lives. The interesting thing is that the men tend to write more of these blogs. The fact you can buy these cages shows there is a market for them. There are also female chastity belts but not many blog about them. I prefer toys like the magic wand. 
Although I don't blog as often as I once did and don't comment on other blogs as much as I once did, I hope to continue writing and hope that you will continue reading and commenting.
And cheers to our lifestyle and that we have found like minded people who share our kinks and continue to be part of our community.
FD

Monday, June 13, 2016

You like to tell me what to do

I loved it when she said that to me yesterday. Is there any better definition of the D/s lifestyle? Yes, I love telling her what to do and she loves doing it. Well, she doesn't love it all -- she is not wild about ice on her boobies -- but she accepts it because it makes me happy. And she loves making me happy. And I like to keep telling her to do things like putting ben-wa balls in her pussy when we talk at night. And wearing the new silver collar I got her. Or giving herself spankings with the new ruler I got her. Or fucking herself with her dildo or putting the Hitachi on her clit. The lifestyle certainly works for us.

FD 

Thursday, June 9, 2016

Birthday gifts

Our birthdays are one day apart and we celebrated them a week late when we recently spent 10 days together and went to a BandB for a couple of days. She is so good at getting me toys I can use on her. Like for our anniversary, she gave me a wooden paddle with five holes in it. It packs a punch. She said she could take it a little harder but a little shorter. She says I took that as an invitation to do it harder and longer. Oh, well.
Anyway, she gave me nipple clamps attached to a chain with a third clamp attached to the chain hanging down in the middle. My first naive comment was where does that third one go. Then I reaized it was for her clit or pussy lips. WOW. What a toy, Unfortunately, as I guessed she couldn't take it very long on her pussy lips. I didn't even try it on her clit. Have any of our bloggers had clamps on down there and how did they feel?. She likes pleasing me but isn't too much of a mascochist.
She also gave me rope with a book on tying knots. I don't know if I'll be able to replicate the knots in the book. And she gave me candles for wax play.
I gave her a nice necklace to wear in place of a collar which she doesn't find comfortable. And a second necklace that is made of a single round piece of steel. It looked like a BDSM collar although it was being sold at a department store. I first figured she wouln't go for that in public but then I decided she could wear it at night when she calls along wih the ben wa balls in her pussy. It kind of prepares her for me to use her before I put her to bed. I also got her a black ruler that says "spank me Sir.'' Actually, I use it to have her spank herself as part of our phone play before we end the evening. I have her spank, rub her clit and slit and then lube up her dildo and fuck herself with it -- I love her being well fucked -- and then have her put the Hitachi on her clit before she goes to bed. It's a nice way to end the evening. I also gave her LED candles. It a good birthday for candles.
We had a good time during her visit but the time just flew by. The BandB was in St. Augustine and they have some great history. They had a Thanksgiving 50 years before the Pilgrims but I guess the Pilgrims had better PR because they get more time in the history books. The Spanish, English and French all fought over St. Augustine until Spain built a fort of cocina shells that looks like stone or cement and it was never overrun although it changed hands in some treaties. And there was shopping. She has the shopping gene and loves it and they have a lot of neat stores. And the wax museum -- the first in the nation -- was quite interesting. She took some good pictures. Hope she gets time to post them.
She left with a sore pussy -- no surprise -- and bruised boobies. Like to put them on a counter and spank them with the riding crop.
We were having lunch one day and there was a TV set on some show talking about how young people tend to screw up contraception. A woman said the pill was giving her an upset stomach so her guy started taking hem. Not surprising she got pregnant. And then they said the condom goes on the twig, not on the berries. That cracked us up and we started referring to my berries which she gave a lot of attention along with my twig.
We don't get as much time together as we'd like but we really enjoy the time we get to spend together.
FD   
  

Sunday, June 5, 2016

Poll asks if people would sleep with Donald Trump for $1 million

The poll said 53 per cent of women and 55 per cent of men say no.
http://www.aol.com/article/2016/06/02/poll-asks-if-people-would-sleep-with-trump-for-1-million/21388230/
Your thoughts.
FD

Marriage

Here's an interesting take on marriage in the NY Times. The headline "Why you will marry the wrong person'' is somewhat misleading. It's more about our expectations. It says that we tend to believe the imperfections in our marriages isn't normal. Instead, it said we should learn to accommodate ourselves to "wrongness,'' striving always to adopt a more forgiving, humorous and kindly perspective on its multiple examples in ourselves and in our partners.
http://www.nytimes.com/2016/05/29/opinion/sunday/why-you-will-marry-the-wrong-person.html?action=click&contentCollection=Opinion&module=Trending&version=Full&region=Marginalia&pgtype=article
Your thoughts?

FD

Friday, May 27, 2016

Stormy weather

My good girl is arriving tonight for a 10-day visit that will include belated birthday celebrations for both of us. Our birthdays are on consecutive days May 22-23 but 24 years apart although to us, age is just a number. And we're going out of town to a B and B for a couple of days next week.
But wouldn't you know it, with the stormy weather, his flight is already 90 minutes late, now due at 1230 a.m. and who knows if it will be later than that. We usually have some good play time when she arrives but she said she is likely to be a zombie by the time we get home at 130 a.m. or later. I had an elaborate scenario planned for tonight and even bought more rope at the hardware store for more bondage. May have to cut things short although I will probably give her a good spanking just to keep her awake. She may not be too wet even when I am rubbing her clit and slit to warm her up.
Anyway, I figure we will sleep late Saturday morning and our morning coffee on the lanai may be late morning. But as we relax, she will have the ben-wa balls inserted the way she does when she calls every night so she will feel like she's mine. I love her feeling like she is mine and is making me happy. Meanwhile, I will try to take a nap but she won't have that luxury at the airport.

FD