Thursday, April 7, 2016

The risks of shaving pubic hair

Here's  an article saying that some women wind up in the ER from labia cuts from shaving their pubic hair. Yet it says 72 per cent of women still shave. I actually prefer the natural unshaved look and wonder if some day more women will go back to the natural look.

Saturday, March 19, 2016

Good times

My good girl did a nice blog on my last visit and I thought I'd share it with you if you didn't read it on my blogroll.
Yes, I still have the wheelie thing and will be using it on her on my next visit. If you read her comments, she said I tortured her with it on the day I left and she was howling and I was laughing. Who I am to protest that she was slightly exaggerating.
The wheel's official name, by the way, is the Wartenburg wheel and was originally designed for medical use but now is popular in the BDSM community.
Of course, we did a lot of other fun things like spankings, butt play and cuffing her to the things that fit over a door and keep her arms above her head. And then comes the use of the wheel, the pins and a spanking of her boobies as she is helpless because her hands are cuffed over her head. Very good for bringing out her submissive side.
And then we also had plenty of cuddling, being close together with our legs and arms intertwined. She loves it with I put my leg between her legs and rub it against her pussy.
And we did some vanilla things like visiting museums and gardens and she got some plants for her backyard. She takes her plants seriously and talks to them so they aren't lonely. It was a wonderful visit and time flew by. Saying goodbye is so difficult for the both of us.  
We had some fun phone time last night with the dildo and vibe and she had a big cum, but today she is spending quality time with her heating pad since Aunt Flo arrived for a visit.
Next month is the fifth anniversary of the first time we played on the phone. Times flies when you are having fun.

Friday, February 26, 2016

Longer visit

I've been having some weekend visits with my good girl, but a weekend seems all too short. It is so difficult to leave. Which is why I am happy to report that I am leaving today for a 10-day visit that will include two weekends.

For 10 days, we get to cuddle each night and wake up in each other's arms. She has to work some of the days but even on those days, it will be nice to be there when she comes home.

We are both looking forward to it. I think it's only the second time we've been together for 10 days. We will cherish every minute, if not every second.


Friday, February 12, 2016

Recharging her batteries

I will be visiting my good girl over the St. Valentine's Day weekend for the second time in three weekends. She has been working long hours in a high stress job so I will give her a lot of nap time to get caught up and recharge her batteries. But she will also be drained as I take everything I want and she gives me what I want. As she has said in the past, I take what I want and I want a lot. She wants to make me happy.

Also, we will play again with our newest toy -- a prostate massager. I like the feel of it. With some lube, it slides in very nicely.

As I often tell her as I prepare to visit, I'm feeling frisky already. And I know she will be waiting for wearing red panties since I give her a panty list each month.


Wednesday, February 10, 2016

How did the date go?

I saw something called an embarrassing party video about men and women discussing a date. Can't figure out how to download it so I will describe it. Was pretty funny.
First one woman talks about her date.
She says the guy came over, ate in a couple of minutes, then dropped his pants and was finished (shows them standing up against the sink with him humping her and shows her frustrated) and it was over quickly before she got her top off. then she says he passed out on the bed.
now the other girl says her date was amazing. The guy picked her up in a taxi, went for a romantic dinner, wandered around the city, got to his place, lit some candles. An hour of best foreplay ever, an hour of wild sex and then he held her and they talked all night. she said it was paradise.
now the two guys give their versions to each other..
Now the first guy said there was food everywhere at her place and it was so good so he filled up and he fucked and fell asleep on her bed and got home to watch the game.
the other guy says the night was a disaster. Electricity was out because he forgot to pay the bill so he has to take her out, so went in a taxi, got an expensive dinner, couldn't afford a taxi home so they had to walk back. they got home and he fumbled for candles.
then he was so tired he couldn't get it up for like and hour and it took an hour for him to get off.
He said I swear to god I was so pissed. then just laid there together all night. it was awful.

Another example of how men and women are Venus and Mars.


Tuesday, February 2, 2016

Impact play

Here's another sign that spanking is becoming more mainstream. Here's a story from the Huffington Post on what it calls "impact play.'' As spanking becomes more mainstream, maybe spankos will start talking to their vanilla friends about how much they like getting spanked.
Here's the link:

Thursday, January 28, 2016


I know texting seems to be more popular these days than talking on the phone. I can see texting for short message but to me it seems much easier to talk on the phone than to have a long texting conversation.
Anyway, here's a story in the New York Times about a woman who kept getting texts from a guy, who not only didn't call but didn't ask her out.

So what are your thoughts on texting vs. talking on the phone.