Wednesday, March 25, 2015

Packing for a visit

I will be traveling to visit my good girl again tomorrow for the weekend. Already started to pack, including the appropriate toys. It will be the fourth time we've been together since New Year's and again looking forward to spending time together and taking her body for my pleasure.

I also hope I'm in better shape than I have been on recent visits. First, there was a a wicked cold that left me so drained that I spanked her while lying in bed. The next get togther the bursitis on my hip flared up. The crazy thing is that I can play tennis fine but sitting down or laying in bed tends to bother it. Got a cortisone shot before my last visit figuring that would solve the problem. It didn't. That's a drag when we both like to cuddle. I even had to get up in the middle of the night and walk around. We still managed some play time including good spankings and she had three loud noisy cums. Still, it wasn't ideal.

Now I'm taking some physical therapy and they told me to sleep with a pillow between my knees to
keep stress off the hip. It's been better lately so hoping it will be fine this weekend.

Still look forward to our rituals, including unbuttoning her blouse when we arrived on her place, unfastening her bra and having her present her boobs to me for my pleasure. Then pulling down her pants and panties and having her spread her legs and then I reach between them and she is usually nice and wet. I love to feel that wetness and to lick it off my fingers.

And, of course, there will be play time, spankings and lots and lots of cuddling.

FD

Tuesday, March 24, 2015

Women talking about masturbating

Here's a story about women talking about masturbating. Do you ever talk about it? Here's the link:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/19/yes-women-masturbate-too_n_6901358.html?utm_hp_ref=women&ir=Women
Your thoughts.
FD

Monday, March 23, 2015

Twenty per cent of young adults have used a smart phone during sex

I can't imagine using a smart phone during sex. It's annoying enough when the phone rings during sex. But this story says 20 per cent of young adults have used a smart phone during sex. Have you?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/18/durex-phone-ad_n_6895102.html?cps=gravity_3405_2512042790292880956
Your thoughts
FD

Why you should make sex more exciting

The headline on this story is why you should make sex more difficult but a better description is how to make it more exciting for couples in a long term marriage.
http://live.huffingtonpost.com/r/highlight/why-you-should-make-sex-more-difficult/524c7254fe3444681e000004?cps=gravity_3669_562766474240443848
Watch the video and share your thoughts.
FD

Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Women's sexual response

The headline is what men should know before having sex with a women. Do you agree with the  comments about female sexuality?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/06/11/sex-with-women_n_5296906.html?utm_hp_ref=love-bytes
FD

Monday, March 16, 2015

Review of movie "Submissiion of Emma Marx''

This is the review of a soft core porn movie shown on cable TV (Showtime) that is a positive portrayal of BDSM.
Here's the link:
http://www.allsexreviews.com/submission-of-emma-marx.html

 As the reviewer says, it opens with a 20 minute vanilla sex not involving the two main characters -- you can fast forward through that scene -- that is apparently a sop to people who aren't into the lifestyle. But it shows how the Emma character -- apparently in real life she is into the lifestyle so maybe that helps her portrayal -- wants to be controlled. On their first date, she says she'll pass of serving him so he says why did you come here. She said because of sheer curiosity. He says fair enough but you are wearing the thigh high stockings I told you to wear. He pulls up her dress and she is. They kiss and he says I want you to undress. She is the narrator and says, "It was out of character for me but for whatever reason I wanted to obey.'' After she is down to the thigh high stockings, he tells her he wants her to touch herself and she does. Then they have their first sex scene and negotiates the terms of their relationship. She says she wants a job in his company for a $75,000 salary, which doesn't seem to fit things.

SPOILER ALERT IF YOU PLAN TO SEE THE MOVIE AND DON'T WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENS, YOU CAN STOP READING HERE.

Anyway, he says she will then be his in the office from 8 to 5 and there is a spanking scene in his office, seven spanks with a paddle which is kind of mild although it apparently leaves a bruise. There are more scenes and then her roommate's boyfriend sees rope burns on her wrists and she hears him say she is a closet freak and she has doubts that she expresses to her Dom and he tells her to leave. She misses the lifestyle and returns to his place and says in the narration that she loves him and felt safe in the power of letting go. He takes her back, ties her to the bed blindfolded, uses ice and candle wax and a rather gentle flogging.     
It ends with her saying some people think of romance as flowers on special occasions or champagne and strawberries in the wee hours of the night. She says for her, romance is the inner peace I get when I completely surrender my control to the person I love. She says everybody has their own version of normal and I have finally come to accept that this is mine. The beauty of finding someone who shares my same perversions and created a different kind of normal.

I think flowers and strawberries and champagne can be a part of the lifestyle -- I love giving my good girl flowers -- but I liked the message that this is normal.

The movie got almost no attention compared to 50 Shades, which I haven't seen, and is considered soft porn although it was tame enough to shown on cable TV but I liked them portraying the lifestyle as normal.

Your thoughts?

FD  

Singer does a song complaining about being photo shopped

It's no secret that most of the women in the fashion magazines are photoshopped to meet society's ideal of female beauty. I hate the message this sends to young women who tend to be unhappy with their bodies.
Here's the story of the singer who wrote a song about it. Of course, she looks great without being photoshopped even though they once even made her arms look skinnier.
Here's the link:
http://www.sunnyskyz.com/good-news/756/Colbie-Caillat-Is-Tired-Of-Being-Photoshopped-So-This-Is-What-She-Did-About-It
I think women should embrace the way they look instead of feeling they have to look like they need a good meal.
Your thoughts? Hope you are happy with your body the way it is.
FD

  

Sunday, March 15, 2015

Average wedding now costs $31,000

Here's an article on the average wedding costing $31,000. How much did you spend on yours?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/13/average-cost-of-wedding-2014_n_6864860.html
FD

Boosting your self esteem

Do you struggle with self esteem issues? Unfortunately many women do. Here's some tips of how to deal with low self esteem.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rebecca-perkins/instantly-boost-self-esteem_b_6814518.html
Your thoughts?
FD

Dating life of a porn star

A woman in porn talks about her experiences with dating.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/xojane-/im-a-sex-worker-and-dating-is-awkward_b_6770650.html
Your thoughts?
FD

A love story

A middle aged woman talks about finding love after a divorce.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/erica-jagger/sexual-partner-rocked-my-world_b_6797644.html
Your thoughts?
FD

Friday, March 13, 2015

Sunday, March 8, 2015

Panties with a message

I thought you'd find it interesting that some women are putting a message about violence against women on their panties.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/05/womens-day-violence_n_6809238.html
Your thoughts.
FD

Friday, March 6, 2015

Science explains why men like curvy booties

This is a fascinating story of how back in the day, women with curvy booties could easier endure multiple pregnancies so men were somehow programmed to like them.
Here's the link for a longer explanation:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/05/why-men-like-butts-science_n_6800172.html?cps=gravity_2445_4747360085501284176
Your thoughts?
FD

Thursday, March 5, 2015

TV show

Have anyone of you gotten an email from Magilla Entertainment that does non scripted programming including Moonshiners on Discovery and Beachfront Bargain Hunt on HGTV?
I just got their email and it says they are doing a docu-series about people who want to change their lives in 21 days. One episode will feature couples who are bored with their vanilla sex life and are looking to spice it up with kink and BDSM. They wanted me to forward their casting call to anyone I deem appropriate, hoping that some of my newer/amateur followers might be interested in an opportunity like this. They also are looking for BDSM experts to coach these couples through the transition. They say they were inspired by the 50 Shades craze.
I actually think they have the wrong format. The better one would be to show real kinky couples and how they interact with each other rather than try to coach vanilla couples in spicing up their lives.
I found it kind of interesting that they found my blog and decided I was an expert but I am not interested in being involved. I will watch it if they get it on the air. But I was curious if any of you got this email.
FD

Clit size

In my previous post about a clit ring -- for the finger not on the clit -- they mentioned the clit is much bigger than we think it is and the button we think of as the clit is just the tip of it. Did anybody know that?
They also mentioned it is the only organ which sole use is for pleasure. I did know that.
When I mentioned clit ring in my previous post, I think most readers thought I meant a ring on their clit, not on their finger. Do any bloggers have one on their clit or their labia lips? Or have thought about getting one? And are you able to orgasm without it being stimulated?
I asked a few questions. It's question March. If you have any questions, feel free to ask.

FD   

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Clit ring

Have you ever heard of a clit ring? Here's a story about Gloria Steinem wearing one. Would you wear one? Here's the link:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/04/gloria-steinem-clit-ring_n_6802870.html
FD