Here's a video of women talking about the misstakes men make in the bedroom. Here's the video:
http://screen.yahoo.com/mistakes-men-make-in-the-bedroom-30190870.html
Do you agree? Have the men in your life done these things?
FD
Virtue
1 hour ago
oh my, FD I had a look and i just didn't get it. Wrong men, wrong women.. I wanted to scream at them "its a two way street, what about exploring what he wants and then you might be able to find it together". Men are under a lot of pressure these days aren't they? Haen't we got past the 'what the woman wants' days. ( I am a feminist! I promise..lol) Those women were very intimidating. Vagina dentata!
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Good points.
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Blimey well its all personal preferences isnt it? mood etc, sometimes i want it tender but actually my favourite is when he takes me selfishly to use for his pleasure..thats what turns me on!
ReplyDeleteCommunication is the issue here, talk to each other about what you both want..neither sex or mind readers.
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Communication is always good and nice that you get turned on when he takes you selfishly to use for his pleasure.
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They didn't say anything I didn't hear 30 years ago. Very dull. And it gave the impression they want the man to cook for them, then spend the bedroom time with their face between their legs. Blah.
ReplyDeleteThe one thing I agreed with is the lost art of foreplay. What I want in the bedroom is to be turned on, and THEN for it to be mostly about what he wants. But I'd like to actually enjoy the what he wants part, and that's difficult without being aroused.
And when I say foreplay I don't necessarily mean a bunch of kissing and petting, but a naughty conversation with the right tone, while he touches my breasts, the way I like, and tells me I exist to serve his pleasure. Hee. That would work.
That kind of foreplay works every time!
DeleteYes, it does my good girl. Especially the part about existing to serve my pleasure.
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Tlkish: I hope you get that kind of foreplay.
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Yeah, sometimes I imagine telling Master I need some foreplay, and it goes like, "Don't worry, Master, I don't want to make out for a half hour on the sofa with the candles lit and listening to Barry White. But could you please touch my breasts!
ReplyDeleteI t1klish: What's with that guy? I would think he would be eager to fondle, caress, squeeze and touch your breasts.
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