The stereotype is that men usually want more sex than the woman in his life does. Here's a story on women who want it more than the man in their life. Here's the link:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/02/sex-confessions-women-want-sex-more-than-men_n_3203879.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular
Your thoughts?
FD
Virtue
1 hour ago
Oh, this is sadly ironic for us. Picture 18 year old DM (my Master now, was boyfriend then) who could go 6-7 times a day, no problem. And me, well, not so interested in just having sex all day long very often. Men get older -they slow down. I get older, I speed up. I basically have no physical limit, even sore I'm still able to go on. Master, however, being over 40 has certain mandatory recovery times. He has accommodated my crazily increased desire by not climaxing every time we have sex. This bothered me at first, that he was not getting all the pleasure he deserved, but he told me that it was his pleasure, and he'd have it when he wanted to, as much as he wanted. And ordered me not to worry about it.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you two have a wonderful sex life and meet each others needs.
DeleteFD
What a shame that all these women are dissatisfied. Although my husband and I have sadly both hit the big 60, we have a great sex life. TTWD has made it even better! Certainly we aren't as flexible as we once were, but we are both much more caring towards each other. We like to give each other as much pleasure as possible, to try to fulfil little fantasies, and to experiment with new things, and I especially love being told what to do. We may not be twenty any more, but we can give some of these youngsters a run for their money!
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Ami
Nice that you can give the youngsters a run for their money.
DeleteFD
As a young wife I learned quickly not to express that I wanted more sex than my husband. Not just to my husband, but to my female friends. I was odd girl out from the get go, and being a horny girl is frowned on by other tired young mothers. Sets a bad precedent I guess.
ReplyDeleteIn the beginning my husband loved my libido, He got lots of guy points from his friends, but after the novelty wore off my libido just annoyed him. Do you have any idea what a "Aw do I have to?" attitude does to a woman's self esteem?
I can imagine it isn't good for your self esteem for your husband to have that attitude. You would think most men would be thrilled for a wife to have a libido like that. But maybe they would react the same way your husband does. Curious how long you have been married and how you have adjusted to this.
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