Monday, July 21, 2014

Pain and pleasure

How can three nights and days go by so fast? It was like she was just here and, poof, she was gone. That is the pain and pleasure of an LDR. My good girl's visits are so sweet, but there is the pain of when she has to leave. It didn't help that her flights going and coming were delayed and she even missed a connection on the arrival and had to take the next flight.
It was late when she arrived and she was tired so we just had vanilla sex Thursday night. Didn't think the mood was right for a spanking. And it's also so nice just cuddling and sucking after being separated for several weeks.
By Friday morning, we were both ready for more. At least I was and she gives me what I want. I put her into a hog tie, which didn't go as well as I had hoped because it wasn't easy to get it just right. But I gave her a good spanking while she was hog tied. I decided I prefer cuffing her wrists to the head board so she can kick her legs when the spanks sting. After the spanking I, cuffed her wrists behind her and then marched her into the kitchen and had her rest her boobs on the counter. Perfect for spanking the tops of them with the riding crop. I then brought her back to the bedroom and strung her up by her arms above her head and put the suckers on her nipples and about 15 pins on each nipple. I left her there so the pins could sink in and then brewed the coffee. I then came back and removed them as she gasped. Coming off, they are more intense then putting them on. By this time, her arms were getting a but numb and I unhooked her. Having your arms held above your head is much more intense than you might think it is. If that isn't part of your play, just hold your arms above your head and see how long you can do it. Then it was time for sex and a very noisy orgasm. It's so nice when she says "fuck me.'' She also likes her nipples pinched hard when she cums. It makes them sore and sensitive when I suck them and that adds tot he sensation. She also sucked me to a nice orgasm. She loves sucking and, of course, I love her doing it. And she is good at it. Very good.
We then had a lazy day, watching some TV and having a nap before we went out to dinner that night. That was the first time she had clothes on since she had arrived except when she asked to wear a bathrobe for a bit after we showered together because it always feels so chilling when you step out of the shower. I finally got the temperature right where she felt comfortable being naked in the house and doesn't feel chilled. I love having her naked in the house, a sign of her submission and also a sign that her body is always ready for my use and easy to caress when we are watching TV. Well, she wore one thing, the string of yarn around her chest that fits under his boobs. I have her wear that except when she showers as another sign of her submission. Kind of a collar but something only the two of us know she has on.
That night I gave her a hand spanking and after a while asked her if she wanted more. I had done that on the two spankings that morning and she said no so I stopped. As I've said, I still have trouble deciding how much is too much. Her answer this time was that it was difficult answering that question. I guess she likes me taking charge so I continued until I decided she had enough. Trying to figure out the right length reminds me of the Goldilocks and the three bears -- not too hot or cold but just right. At least I know she will never be able to blog that she doesn't get enough spankings. Not at least when we're together.
I started Saturday off with another spanking, which is kind of our morning ritual after cuddling. I also put the nipple suckers on her after turning her over. Later, we did some shopping and watched a movie that night. Sunday morning was another spanking and nipple suckers and put the pins on while she was lying down. And I also put whipped cream on her nipples and sucked it off. I've also considered putting the whipped cream on her pussy but I like the natural scent and smell too much when I suck it and lick it. Then I had her put on some clothes and we had coffee on the lanai and walked on the grass in bare feet as we overlooked the pond and the house across the pond. And then she had to pack and the all too short visit was over. It is always a sad time to say goodbye, especially after a short visit.
But we are left with the memories. Oh, the memories. We both savor them. And look forward to making more memories.

FD

20 comments:

  1. Sounds like the most amazing time. Short, but obviously very very sweet for you both. Lovely :)

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  2. Sounds like a wonderful time together, and a nice mix of vanilla and kink. Sorry it was short, but It sounds like you made the most of your time :)

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. It was a very nice mix of vanilla and kink.

      FD

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  3. Thanks for sharing with us. Sounds perfect...except for the length....there is always next time.
    hugs abby

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    1. It was virtually perfect except for the length.

      FD

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  4. FD,

    Such a short visit but you sounds like you both had a wonderful time.

    I hope her next visit isn't too far away.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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    1. She is already scheduled for two visits in November, including Thanksgiving Day, but we're trying to plan one before that. We can't wait until November to be together again.

      FD

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  5. Glad you had a wonderful time. Hope the time goes by quickly til the time of the next visit.

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    1. We will be counting the days until the next visit.

      FD

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  6. Too many spankings is when you mention giving her another one and her eyes are filling with tears... yup, been there, though not very often.

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  7. Sounds like you both had a wonderful time, albeit, too short. I am so happy for you both! Now, I must ask and please pardon my ignorance but what exactly is a nipple sucker? Because it sounds like something I should own!!

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    1. I suggest you Google or DuckDuckGo.com (a search engine that doesn't track where you go) nipple suckers and you can see what I mean. There are basically two types, A round cylinder that sucks in the nipple when you turn it or a bulb that suck in the nipple when you squeeze it. Whether you should own a pair depends on how much you like your nipples being sensitive and sore. The bulb one appears to be more gentle. There are an alternative to nipple clamps.

      FD

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  8. Sounds like you made the best of every moment... it's not the amount of time you spend.. but how well you spend it.

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  9. What a wonderful weekend, and I hope it won't be to terribly long before you can be with her again.

    Respectfully,
    brat xx

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  10. sounded you both had a wonderful weekend FD, pity about the flights.... thank you for sharing it with us...smiles...

    blossom

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  11. Sounds like such a lovely time together. And I agree with others - a nice mix of vanilla and kink. It sounds like it was both stimulating and relaxing!

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