Old spanker learning new tricks

Back when I posted more often, I mentioned that real life spanking is more difficult than fantasy. Like getting her butt a nice shade of red and want er to enjoy it but don't want to really hurt her. 
And I finally did something recently
that was so obvious I can't figure out why I didn't think of it b.efore. After spanking for a while, I said have you had enough and she said NO,
Communication is always good.
It was long ago that she told me she liked her pussy being spanked as part of foreplay although it is too sensitive for more than light taps.
So do any of you liked to be asked if you want more or does that spoil the mood for you?

FD

Collared

One of the highlights of our holiday together is that I presented her with a collar. It is made of leather with a silver circle in the middle. Found it at a department store so it looks vanilla enough that she can wearit outside the house but the great thing is that she loved it and only takes it off when she showers. I love seeing her wearing it. One of my things I like is marking her but my ideas haven't worked too well.. Writing on her body with a magic marker didn't work because it came on her clothes. A string around her chest was irritating. And not having her shaves her pits only works in the winter. But I think this collar is going to work out well.
Anyway, hope you are all doing well and I will try to post more often.

FD 

Belated Happy Holidays

Sorry I didn't wish you all happy holidays sooner. One of my New Year's resolutions has to be to blog more often and stay in touch with my old friends. Hard to believe I've been on here since 2006.
I spent Christmas with the kids and grandkids. Two of the grandkids are two and five and so much fun to be with the little ones who still believe in Santa and put out cookies for Santa and a carrot for Rudolph. Fortunately, we had rain but not snow. Living in a southern climate the last 17 or so years, I've gotten spoiled not having to deal with snow.
After a week I flew back home for a day and then left to spend New Year's Eve with my good girl. And her two dogs. The fouro of us welcomed in the new year on the couch. The two dogs have different personalities. One wants to be at one end by himself. The other one wants to be sharing our space. Being in the eastern time zone, we welcome it in twice. They show the ball dropping at Times Square live at 11 pm local time and then we did it again an hour later. Didn't like the bigger ball that doesn't seem to drop.
Hope you all had a wonderful holday season and let's hope we all have a great new year and stay in touch with our friends in the blogging world.

FD