I found this post by Lil on face slapping quite interesting. Here's the link:
http://submissivesanctuary.blogspot.com/?zx=f52f74f94c5271a7
It doesn't seem to click on so you can click on submissivesanctuary on my blogroll.
Would be curious to hear your reaction to it.
FD
aha..another face slappng discussion..I too was encouraged to write about the slap in response to Lil's post..can't over emphasize how much i love the face slap! ;)
ReplyDeleteThe face slap pbviously works for you.
DeleteFD
To take a line from littleone...I can't over emphasize how much I would hate the face slap.
ReplyDeleteAnd it obviously doesn't work for you.
DeleteFD
RED! ! ! ! !
ReplyDeletethanks for sharing.
DeleteFD
I think no, but it's been creeping into fantasies lately. But in reality, it would have to be so light-- more a symbolic act than one involving any pain whatsoever...
ReplyDeleteInteresting that it is creeping into your fantasies.
DeleteFD
I am like sunnygirl, I could not deal with a face slap.
ReplyDeleteanother no.
DeleteFD
I commented on lil's post...yummy love it, it definitely produces instant wetness and i dont mean from the eyes lol
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another yes. We seem to be alternating on this question.
DeleteFD
I love being slapped in the face. However, for a part-time sub, there is the problem of it being too easy to do in non D&S situations.
ReplyDeleteI can see that could be a problem.
DeleteFD
Face slapping not for me.
ReplyDeleteLove,
Ronnie
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I understand.
DeleteFD
don't like it at all..
ReplyDeleteWe'll put you in the no column.
DeleteFD
I commented on lil's post too. It's a big ole yes for me, lol.
ReplyDeleteAnother yes.
DeleteFD
Nope. Not happening! Sara
ReplyDeleteAnother no.
DeleteFD
There was this woman I used to see... and one night during a fucking, she said she wanted me to hit her... so I slapper her rather lightly... I've honestly not done that before... and she said it wasn't hard enough.. harder!!!
ReplyDeleteSo I did, but it still wasn't hard enough... she made a fist and knocked the HELL out of me and said, "like this!!"... I told her that there was no way I was going to hit her like that!!
Now I can tie you up and all of that with the best of them... just not much of a slapper.
~shoes~
I guess slapping isn't your thing.
DeleteFD
Definitely no. Master told me that once upon a time a woman wanted him to slap her face during sex, and he wasn't at all comfortable with it. I'm glad he told me this because it gave me the chance to tell him I wouldn't be into that. Subject closed with us.
ReplyDeleteI understand the subject is clsoed with you two.
DeleteFD
I really love face slapping.
ReplyDeleteIt happened first about 3 years ago.. and shocked me but I wasn't the least bit upset. It got my attention which was the intention.
Sir doesn't do it often and when he does, I'm surprised. I do like it. I don't think I can ask for it.. so I'll just wait...;~)
Does the waiting add to the experience?
DeleteFD
Love it! I am with Tori it gets me instantly wet. We have been experimenting with it quite a bit lately which is funny because when I first brought it up Master said it was a hard limit for him. I never have to ask now.
ReplyDeleteIf it gets you instantly wet, it has to be good for you.
DeleteFD
In my limited Dom/sub experience, I have found that I like the face slap occasionally. It does serve to shock me and get my attention, as well as to reinforce my "role" as a sub. I do think its a fine line though. Anyway, put me in the "yes, please" column on this one.
ReplyDeleteWill put you into the yes, please column.
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Hi FD
ReplyDeleteJust checking in really, you have been quite quiet of late and im used to seeing you post a blog regularly, hope your ok?
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Tori: Thanks for asking. It's nice to know you noticed my absence. I'm fine. Just been very busy at work, including three quick business trips in the last month. I hope to get back to blogging more often. I enjoy being a part of this community. And thanks for reading my blog.
DeleteFD
Not a fan, but then again for me face/head/hair is *only* for gentleness. To stroke my hair or lift my chin (to force me to make eye contact during a scolding, for example), would be far, far more powerful than any slap on the face.
ReplyDeleteI can understand that lifting your chin to force you to make eye contact during a scolding would be a very powerful experience.
DeleteFD
I like it. My Master doesn't do it hard enough to damage me or hurt much, but just to remind me that I'm his. I like it quite a bit, and have actually had dreams (real night time ones) about being slapped.
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