Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Visiting my new grandson

This has been a special week for me. I've been visiting my two month old grandson for the first time.

The little tyke is only two months old and a darling baby but then maybe I'm prejudiced.

The first day he kind of fussed when I held him but since then he's often slept in my arms. One time in the rocking chair as I rocked him, I even dozed off too. He's only nine pounds and easily fits in the crook of my arm.

His little thumb is so small that he can't suck it so, he sucks his little fist. The doc said he has an oral fixation at this stage. I don't think I ever outgrew that. LOL.

Anyway, for those of you who are grandparents -- he is my third -- you know how much fun it is. You don't have any of the responsibilities of raising them. You just enjoy them. Reached a milestone today when he rolled over for the first time. My daughter said he was too young to do it as he twisted his hips but he finally managed to do it.

Very precious moments.

FD

Saturday, October 26, 2013

Learning a lesson

I like to alert bloggers to new blogs and if you haven't seen this one I think you will enjoy it.
She talks about how she got too demanding in wanting an orgasm and her Sir taught her a good lesson. Here's the link:

http://sexuallysubmissivewoman.blogspot.com/2013/10/lesson-learned.html?showComment=1382792807635#c6982797602581032769

You might stop by and welcome her to our community. Her Sir seems to be training her to be a good submissive.

FD.

Friday, October 18, 2013

Holding her hand

A :LDR relationship can be difficult when you aren't there to be hands on.

But when my good girl was having a difficult time, she reached out to me to take her hand. She wrote what I thought was a very moving blog about it and I thought I'd share it with you.

http://pouredoutlett.blogspot.com/

I so like being there for her.

FD

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Big boobs

Here's an article by a woman talking about the problems of having big boobs.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/literally-darling/tits-mcgee-growing-up-with-big-boobs_b_4098364.html?ref=topbar

Your thoughts? And would bloggers like to share what they think of their boobs? Are they just right or are you not happy with them?

FD

Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Sex in your 60s

Did you see that Miley Cyrus said she thinks people don't have sex after 40 and Suzanne Somers replied that she and her husband of 36 years still have sex "a couple of times a day.''

Good for them. Here's the link:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/09/suzanne-somers-sex-confession_n_4069486.html?ncid=webmail5

Your thoughts?

FD

Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Wearing high heels may not be good for a woman's orgasm

I found this article under the title of 12 shocking sex facts. I didn't find them shocking but some were interesting.

Especially the comment that certain high end shoe brands developed their high heeled shoes to approximate the arch in a woman's pelvis when she is having an orgasm.  It says the heels create a contraction in the pelvic floor, which is problematic because the pelvic floor then cannot contract further during orgasm. An orgasm  is usually like going from zero to 60. If you're already at 55 from wearing heels, you're not going to have a full experience.

I have no idea if this is true but found it interesting. I know some women like wearing high heels because they think they look sexy in them. But kind of ironic if they diminish orgasms.

http://healthland.time.com/2013/10/04/lets-talk-12-surprising-facts-about-sex-and-women/?iid=sl-main-mostpop2

There's the link. Also some other interesting comments like orgasms make women feel more creative. And that sitting in chairs can arouse women as long as they don't sit in them most of the day.

And that women have three erogenous zones, clit, G spot and opening of the cervix. It says some argue nipples should be in the list.  I would argue that , too. I think women like their nipples and boobs being stimulated.

It also says all women can achieve orgasm but not everybody knows how to use the machinery well. They also may have lovers who don't know how to give them satisfaction.

Anyway, I will be interested in your thoughts on women's sexual pleasure.

FD 

Sunday, October 6, 2013

The last barrier

My good girl suggested this title for a blog post. She felt we passed a last barrier when we did anal play in her recent visit. And she said she loved it.

Although I had her use a butt plug in the past when we did phone sex, I had spent my time in our visits playing with her boobs and pussy and doing play things like spanking and bondage. And having her follow my rituals.

I decided it was time for me to try the back door and it was nice that she loved it. I will be doing that more in the future.

Don't know how many of you like that kind of play.

Another thing we love to do is shower together. And I have a walk in shower, which is easier to use for two than having both of us showering together in the bathtub and not having a lot of room.

We both love showering together and I don't know how popular that is. But there is a closeness to it that is very appealing and satisfying.

FD