Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Birthday spanking

The timing is perfect for my good girl's arrival tomorrow. Our birthdays are back-to-back days Thursday (hers) and Friday (mine) and we also get to spend the holiday weekend together. What are the odds of our birthdays being on consecutive days?


Of course, she will be getting a good birthday spanking. I added a new dimension the last time she was here, cuffing her hands to the headboard and taking the riding crop and starting on the bottom of her feet, the inside of her thighs, her butt and shoulders. And then repeat and repeat so it's not the same place every time.


And I was planning on spanking her pussy and boobs when I turned her over but she asked for a pussy spanking when she was still on her tummy and I obliged. And then I put about 15 pins on each boob. They sting going on and even more so when I take them off. Instead of opening them as I take them off, I like to pull them off which increases the sensation. And the nipple suckers are a delight along with running the Wartenberg wheel over her body.


That was just the warmup for her noisy cums that left her shaking. 

Another favorite is cuffing her hands over her head to the cuff attached to the top of the door and then using the nipple suckers and pins along with the riding crop.


And she only wears a bathrobe around the house so I have easy access when I am in the mood to use her.


The one thing I still have somewhat of a problem in my head is just how much pain to deliver. I know it makes her feel submissive and it brings out my dom side but I am sometimes not sure if I am overdoing it. I don't know if other doms have this feeling. Sometimes when I am squeezing and rubbing her boobs while we watch TV, she will tell me they are getting sore so we seem to finding the right balance. She tells me I am insatiable but she doesn't seem to mind that. And we have our little rituals. She has to tie a piece of yarn around her chest under her boobs after she showers as a sign of her submission. No pain or even discomfort in that but just a reminder that she is mine.


We celebrated our third anniversary of when we started playing and she noted that leather is the symbol of the third anniversary as a sign of the durability of a relationship. And she gave me a leather paddle which I will be using this time.


An LDR relationship has its challenges but we cherish the times are together. Absence does seem to make the heart grow fonder. And now we're both counting the hours.


FD

30 comments:

  1. My Master and I have birthdays like yours.

    Dec 25 - Me
    Dec 26 - Master

    It makes for a really crazy and expensive Christmas!
    I hope she has a wonderful birthday and you enjoy your time together!

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    1. So you were a Christmas baby. Makes Christmas extra special. And how nice his is the next day.

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  2. ahh...how nice that you get to celebrate your birthdays together....i have found that pain tolerance increases .......Happy birthday to both of you!
    hugs abby

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    1. Thanks for the birthday wishes. Don't know if the pain tolerance increases in an LDR. I can imagine it does with daily spankings.

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  3. Have wonderful birthdays and a great time together. I agree with abby, pain tolerance definitely increases over time :)

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    1. Thanks, we are looking forward to having a wonderful time together. Interesting that pain tolerance does increase over time.

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  4. Wishing you both a happy birthday

    xx

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    1. We're looking forward to having a great time together.

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  5. Happy birthdays to you both :-)

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  6. happy birthday to you both...am sure you will have a fabulous time together...smiles...when Master has me wear clothes pegs on His boobs He has me remove them with a little flogger which can be torturous, as those little suckers like to cling on if i dont get it first time...lol

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    1. We are looking forward to having a fabulous time together. So you know what it is like to have those pegs on your boobs.

      FD.

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  7. FD, I'm so happy you are getting together. And I also happy that you two have found each other. I think your balance is just fine and it will get even better over time. Don't forget to give her YOUR birthday spanking too!

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    1. It is so wonderful that we found each other. Yes, I will give her MY birthday spanking.

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  8. Happy birthday to both of you. I'm so happy for you and your good girl that you get to celebrate together. My Musicman worries too about the amount of pain he delivers, but that is what communication is for and you both seem to have that worked out just right. Have a wonderful weekend :)

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    1. I can understand Musicman worrying about the amount of pain he delivers. Yes, communication is important and we are trying to work it out. We hope to have a wonderful weekend.

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  9. Happy Birthday!!! Have a fabulous weekend.

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    1. Thanks. We are having a wonderful time.

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  10. How wonderful you have birthday's together. I'm so glad and happy for you that you will be together. Have a fabulous weekend. Wishing you both a very Happy Birthday!

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. Thanks. We are enjoying our birthdays.

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  11. Not being a part of the lifestyle.. I said a lot of "ooohs" and "Ouches" as I read your plan.. but.. I know you enjoy it so... Have a wonderful time and I sure wish you both a Very Happy Birthday !!!!!!

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    1. I know the lifestyle isn't for everyone but we've having wonderful birthday celebrations.

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  12. Well that sounds pretty lovely actually. My birthday is this Saturday, the big three O.
    I hope you guys have a great long weekend together. I am sure you will enjoy every moment together.

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    1. Enjoy the big 3-0. Ahh, to be that young again.

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  13. I am so curious about the pins! Are they straight pins that you put in her skin, kind of like acupuncture? I hope you both have a happy horny birthday! I just had mine last Saturday too!

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    1. No they are clothespins. They don't puncture the skin but they bite. And taking them off can be a bigger sensation than putting them on.

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  14. My birthday is this holiday weekend too! Happy Birthday to you both and I hope you have a spectacular time together. Though I'm sure you will. Enjoy the birthday spanking!

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    1. Hope you have a wonderful birthday, too.

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  15. Some birthday spanking that was! Looks like you've given me a thought in how I should spend my birthday.

    Darwin Escorts

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    1. Yes, birthday spankings are nice.

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