Birthday spanking

The timing is perfect for my good girl's arrival tomorrow. Our birthdays are back-to-back days Thursday (hers) and Friday (mine) and we also get to spend the holiday weekend together. What are the odds of our birthdays being on consecutive days?


Of course, she will be getting a good birthday spanking. I added a new dimension the last time she was here, cuffing her hands to the headboard and taking the riding crop and starting on the bottom of her feet, the inside of her thighs, her butt and shoulders. And then repeat and repeat so it's not the same place every time.


And I was planning on spanking her pussy and boobs when I turned her over but she asked for a pussy spanking when she was still on her tummy and I obliged. And then I put about 15 pins on each boob. They sting going on and even more so when I take them off. Instead of opening them as I take them off, I like to pull them off which increases the sensation. And the nipple suckers are a delight along with running the Wartenberg wheel over her body.


That was just the warmup for her noisy cums that left her shaking. 

Another favorite is cuffing her hands over her head to the cuff attached to the top of the door and then using the nipple suckers and pins along with the riding crop.


And she only wears a bathrobe around the house so I have easy access when I am in the mood to use her.


The one thing I still have somewhat of a problem in my head is just how much pain to deliver. I know it makes her feel submissive and it brings out my dom side but I am sometimes not sure if I am overdoing it. I don't know if other doms have this feeling. Sometimes when I am squeezing and rubbing her boobs while we watch TV, she will tell me they are getting sore so we seem to finding the right balance. She tells me I am insatiable but she doesn't seem to mind that. And we have our little rituals. She has to tie a piece of yarn around her chest under her boobs after she showers as a sign of her submission. No pain or even discomfort in that but just a reminder that she is mine.


We celebrated our third anniversary of when we started playing and she noted that leather is the symbol of the third anniversary as a sign of the durability of a relationship. And she gave me a leather paddle which I will be using this time.


An LDR relationship has its challenges but we cherish the times are together. Absence does seem to make the heart grow fonder. And now we're both counting the hours.


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