Tuesday, March 17, 2015

Women's sexual response

The headline is what men should know before having sex with a women. Do you agree with the  comments about female sexuality?


  1. FD, I think many of the "bullet points" listed there are among the many reasons that Female Led Relationships/Marriages are gaining popularity.

    A few examples if I may:

    "How a woman feels about her body can directly affect how much she enjoys sex." In a true, loving FLM/FLR, the woman's body is a natural temple of pure beauty ...

    "Our culture values male pleasure more than female pleasure." Um, FLM/FLR have a natural dynamic that prevents this from being true.

    "The more invested a man is in his female partner's pleasure, the more likely she is to enjoy herself." Of course this is true in FLM/FLR for what would seem to be obvious reasons.

    "The average woman takes about 10 to 20 minutes to reach an orgasm during foreplay and vaginal intercourse." In a FLM/FLR, it doesn't matter how long it takes the woman to orgasm. It's irrelevant. In fact, I would say the longer it takes, the more pleasure that the submissive husband has getting there.

    I know that not everyone is even interested in a FLM/FLR, but ...... you know.

    Love this article FD. Thanks for sharing

  2. You make some good points that men who like FLM know how to please a woman. Guys who aren't good learn some good pointers from them.


  3. I used to have a very poor libido. At least compared to him. I really almost never wanted to have sex. I can pin it to three main things: during that time he was very busy at school so there was no time for intimacy at all. When I would see him, it was like the only thing he wanted from me was sex, which made me pull back. I felt pretty neglected, which was school's fault, not his. Also birth control pills can cause lower hormones and reduced my sex drive. When I went off them, the sex picked up again. And third, I need that element of force/pain to get turned on sometimes. And I mean need it. Without that, sex often just doesn't do much for me.

    1. Good to hear he is giving you what you want and need and that going off the pills helped your libido. And a good point that when you felt neglected, it affected your libido.