Here's an interesting celebrating women wanting orgasms.
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenny-block/heres-what-happens-when-women-demand-orgasms_b_7889094.html
Tell me what you think
FD
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1 hour ago
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Well of course I believe that there is at least one woman that should never have to demand an orgasm, but rather live with the knowledge and comfort of kowing that she may comfortably command that her husband/lover/friend give or assist in giving her one.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if it was intended or not, but the article makes some great examples of the benefit of a FLR/FLM. Thanks for sharing FD
I thought that was a pretty good article. I'd be interested in what my wife thinks about it, but she is pretty reluctant to read such things.
ReplyDeleteI do think there is a cultural aspect involved. When we were first married, my wife inexplicably refused every idea we found (this was pre-internet) to enable her to climax. She wouldn't masturbate, wouldn't let me use a vibrator on her... nothing. Her position seemed to be, "oh well, it's just not in the cards for me".
Why would she feel that way? I don't know for sure, but I suspect that she had a negative view of sex growing up (from various sources) and was reluctant to try new things because it seemed self-indulgent. Even today, I watch as she sacrifices herself constantly for her family, sometimes in bizarre ways (if we go to a new restaurant, she will go over the menu with our youngest, who is more than capable of reading and deciding alone). So, I think there's an unwritten "moms have to sacrifice" thread woven into our society as well.
I'm not a sociologist, but I do see that my wife has some self-denial seemingly woven into her DNA. We shifted that around, and now I'm the one getting denied. And we're very happy. Things are much more interesting now...