Happy New Year

I want to wish all my blogger friends a Happy New Year and hope that the next year is a good one for you and that you are loved and have someone to love.

Starting this blog was one of the highlights of the past year for me. I started it at urging of the lovely PK as a place to post my Training Lisa stories. And yes, one of my New Year's resolutions is to add chapters.

What I didn't realize is that I would make a connection with so many other bloggers and that you would find my topics interesting and worth commenting on. And that so many of you seem to welcome my comments on your sites. This is a warm, welcoming community. I want to thank you all for dropping by and to ask the lurkers out there not to be shy and to add their thoughts.

And so my last question of the year is how do you like to spend New Year's Eve? Do you go to a party, out to dinner, spend it at home and watch the ball come down or just go to bed at your usual time so you're sleeping when the new year rolls in. And do you make New Year's Resolutions?

My answer is we have gone to parties in the past but we also enjoy just relaxing after Christmas and are content to watch the ball go down at midnight. And to think about past New Year's Eves and realize how some dreams were meant and some wern't. It's a good time to reflect.

Again, Happy New Year.

FD

Christmas Memories

I just want to thank everyone who left Christmas and holiday messages under my last post and I hope you all had a great holiday.

Yes, it was fun seeing the grandkids, 7 and 6, and watching them leaving food on the front law for the reindeer and cookies for Santa but having mixed feelings because I know we don't have too many years left of them waiting for Santa. And seeing them run downstairs, looking under the tree and yelling, "the wii, the wii,'' just what they had asked Santa to leave. Ah, those moments are priceless.

And for those of you who are grandparents, you know how much fun they are. I asked the 6 year old how much 6 and 5 added up to and she said 11. When I asked what's 5 and 6 and she hesitated and said, "11'' and then added, "You can't trick me.'' Again, moments to savor.

Ane while there was the usual holiday stress to deal with, the weather was rainy in the northeast instead of snowy and the planes were on time. You can't ask for much more.

By the way, we didn't get as many Christmas cards as in past years. Did you experience the same thing or did you cutback yourself? I don't know if this is a trend or not.

Happy Holidays

I just wanted to wish all the bloggers and even the lurkers a happy holiday season.

I just wish it could be more of a Norman Rockwell and Currier and Ives type of season but the reality of all the stress of the season often makes makes it difficult to cope with everything.

I just hope you don't have too much stress to deal with in getting everything ready for the holidays and/or traveling if you have to travel at this time of year. We're off to see the grandkids and it's always fun to spend the holidays with the kids who still think Santa is coming.

Again, may you all be blessed this holiday season. Also, hope you're all loved and have someone to love at this time of year.

FD

Female Sexuality

I thought I'd share some thoughts from an article in the New York Times Saturday, which notes that men run the film and TV industries as well as the medical and pharmaceutical industries and set the standards for beauty, sexiness and normalcy.

They're created the image in shows like "Desperate Housewives'' that women are "rapacious sexual predators, always in the mood for sex and without qualms about bedding down as many men as possible.''

The article quoted one female professor of psychiatry as saying, "Everybody has to like sex, want sex, be good at sex. In the face of that, it's inevitable that people feel insecure.''

And plastic surgeons has promoted what they call "vaginal rejuvenation'' because women have become conscious of how their own genital features stack up against others.''

The article also says that female sexual dysfunction is an example of a disease created by the drug companies while in reality, scientists understand little about female desire and the interaction between the mind and the body.

I thought the article had some interesting points and I thought I'd see if any of the readers had any comments to make on this subject.

Your thoughts?

FD

Do you like your nipples?

A few weeks ago,one of our newew bloggers, strivingforpeace on peacefullysubmissive.blogspot.com wrote that she didn't like her nipples. She said they were "too big and too brown'' and that she always wanted "those cute little tiny delicate nipples.''

She also said they're hard all the time so she has to wear padded bras or they show through all the time.

I found this interesting. I didn't know women judged their nipples and if they did, I thought bigger was better. So I posted a comment asking her if any of the men in her life had complained about them and she said she had gotten some criticism (I can't imagine a guy complaining about nipples) although fortunately the current dom in her life loves them.

Anyway, she recently posted a picture of one of them and I thought it was lovely.

So I thought we could have a discussion to find out what women think of their nipples. Do they like them, have problems with them or rarely give them any thought? And do you like them showing through your clothes or not?

I'd be interested in your thoughts if you want to share them.

FD

Food and Foreplay

Do you like to include food in your foreplay?

For example, it's always fun to suck on nipples. but when they're covered with whipped cream, it's even more of a delight. The same thing with whipped cream on a freshly shaved pussy.
Or maybe something like a strawberry inserted into her so when you remove it and eat it, her juices are mixed with it.

Or how about using ginger root as a butt plug? The burning sensation in her butt adds to the scene and makes her more submissive, especially when she's told to stop squirming.

Are there any other foods you might to include in your foreplay or is this not your thing.

Would you like to share you thoughts and/or experiences on this subject?

A Sub as a Boss

This post was suggested by one of the bloggers a while back. She wanted to discuss what kind of a boss that sub women who are bosses or in charge of something as their workplace see themselves as. Is it difficult to make the transition between being a sub at home and a boss at the workplace? And she even brought up the b word (she used the word bitch, not me) and wondered whether the sub women tended to be viewed that way at the workplace.

She also wondered how did they perceive their Dom's style of leadership?

And I'd add if you not a boss and have a woman for a boss, how do you perceive her and do you prefer women or men as bosses?

By the way, if any male subs want to discuss this topic, we'd love your input. Selkie says there are more male subs than female subs but it seems hard to get the male subs to write in Cyberspace, which gives the impression that most subs are women.

Your thoughts?

FD

Tiger's Better Half

I'm sure most of you are aware of the escapades of Tiger Woods, but the idea of a famous athlete fooling around is old news.

What interests me was the reaction of his wife, who apparently chased his car down the driveway and bashed in the back window with a golf club. You go girl.

And the reports are that a substantial sum was posted in her personal bank account to keep her from walking. And they're redoing the pre-nup. She was to get $20 million if she stayed 10 years. Now the sum will be increased to more than $20 million and the number of years will be cut.

So my question is what would you do. Would you walk now? Would you hang around to collect the $20 plus million and then leave or would you forgive and try to make a go of it? My wife said she'd stick around to collect the $20 plus million.

Also, I have a hunch that being a stunning blonde the way Tiger's wife is may be a mixed blessing. I think most beautiful women tend to get judged only on their looks and I think that can get tiring.

Your thoughts?

FD

OTK Spankings

Many of you are familiar with the delightful blog by the lovely Ronnie (ronniesoul.blogspot.com) so you may be familiar with this, but she commented recently on why over the lap spankings are called OTK (over the knee) spankings). That's a good question that I don't have an answer for.

She also said in a comment that she loves OTK spankings, but then she loves them in any position.

Which brings me to a question for all the spankos out there. Do you like OTK spankings better than when you're over the bed, over the chair, over something or even standing up? Is it more intimate and more satisfying to feel him under you as he's whacking your butt. Or our all spankings equally good?

Will be interested in your thoughts and comments if you want to share!!!!

FD