Many of you are familiar with the delightful blog by the lovely Ronnie (ronniesoul.blogspot.com) so you may be familiar with this, but she commented recently on why over the lap spankings are called OTK (over the knee) spankings). That's a good question that I don't have an answer for.
She also said in a comment that she loves OTK spankings, but then she loves them in any position.
Which brings me to a question for all the spankos out there. Do you like OTK spankings better than when you're over the bed, over the chair, over something or even standing up? Is it more intimate and more satisfying to feel him under you as he's whacking your butt. Or our all spankings equally good?
Will be interested in your thoughts and comments if you want to share!!!!
FD
Saturday Spankings - A different type of man
4 hours ago
I've never had an OTK spanking. :( I think it sounds nice, though.
ReplyDeleteI'll get over someones' knee if they want me to although it doesn't 'do' a whole lot for me. I much prefer to be standing and bending forward to receive spankings and when giving I prefer the same for my spankee (!).
ReplyDeleteI am leaving today to visit my Sir (AKA, hubby) oversea in Kuwait where he is working for 2 years. In his apartment there, he has a lovely overstuffed chair that I dearly love to be bent over..for various purposes (haha), but for spankings..it is so perfect for me. The nicely padded arm of that chair is the perfect height for me, as if it was made just for me and for the purpose my husband uses it for. OTK is great and I love it, but being bent over that chair arm which not only raises my naked ass to the perfect height for him, but it raises me to the point I am barely touching the floor with the tips of my toes...so each whack to my tender cheeks causes my feet to leave the floor. Heavenly. Just heavenly.
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OTK is my favorite position. It is an intimate position that I don't think would work well for a punishment but for a reminder or who's/who spanking I love it.
ReplyDeleteIt is the one place I feel completely safe and completely loved.
True Blue: Maybe they'll be in your future.
ReplyDeleteSex Warrior: Oh, so you both give and receive. That gives you another perspective. And sounds like bending or standing is right for you. And thanks for stopping by my blog.
Pinkpoppet: Have a great trip and tell us how heavenly they were when you get back. And sorry about the two-year separation. Hope you're able to visit fairly often back and forth.
FD
As you know -- I'm not a fan of the spankings (to Mr. C's delight) -- but given a choice? OTK every time. It creates a closeness that is comforting (also I don't think he gets as wide an arch on his arm swing!
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It isn't OTK unless you are! Over the bed, over a chair, standing up etc. are very nice, but OTK is over his legs. And yes, I like it!
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Hermione
Well, over the knee is just so wonderfully traditional and even conservative, and although it doesn't happen often for me, I always enjoy the experience. It isn't especially comfortable but that's sort of part of the deal of that position and yes, it is a "safe" sort of position where one feels a strong connection with the spanker. Emotionally, it's a very nice place to be!
ReplyDeleteI've never actually had an OTK spanking... and to be honest, I'm not sure how I feel about it. On the one hand, I think I'd be more comforted by the closeness to him. Just being able to touch him. But at the same time I think it would be a bit uncomfortable (physically) and humiliating... at least for me. I suppose it's one of those things I'd have to experience to know for sure.
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Janet: It's obvious you get a lot out of the OTK spankings. I hope he's likes them, too, so you're on the same page.
ReplyDeleteStriving: If that's your choice if he wants to deliver a spanking, I hope it's his choice, too.
Hermione: Good to hear you love it.
Vesta: Interesting that even though you don't find it that comfortable, you still find it gives you a strong connection with the spanker.
Spirited: I guess he isn't into the OTK spankings, either.
otk spankings are my favorite. especially for punishment. the humiliation part of it, definitely adds to the experience for me. and the closeness of being over his lap with his arm firm around my waist helps me feel safe during a punishment session.
ReplyDeletefor erotic purposes, however, any position will do. ;-)
FD - Thanks for the mention. OTK yes my favourite, it's so personal to be over his knee and feel the closeness.
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Ronnie
xx
No, I don't think so. I think he likes that he has extra swing if he can just stand over me as I lay on the bed... and he also has better control.
ReplyDeleteThe sadist is rather rotund, so I am in fact over his knees rather than in his lap. And I agree with Vesta that the position is not terribly comfortable. But my opinion in the matter doesn't really count, does it?
ReplyDeleteOTK is often for punishment. Or to teach me a lesson. I remember one time, in the middle of giving my Master a blowjob, I forgot an important feature that he demands as part of the process. He was very angry that I still hadn't been focused enough to remember to incorporate everything he wants. There was a devastating scolding and then I was over his knee, balanced precariously, steadied with one hand on the floor, while he gave me a relatively short but extremely effective spanking. He hits VERY hard. It was awful, and I sobbed quite thoroughly. But oh, I am horribly aroused as I remember it now...
i enjoy OTK spankings right over Sir's lap - mmmm what a turn on. Especially when He spanks me hard and with no mercy then slows down and dips a finger into His hole/s :P
ReplyDeleteBaby girl: Sounds like the OTK works for both of you as a punishment spanking.
ReplyDeleteRonnie: Thanks for the idea.
Spirited One and Viemoira: I find it interesting that Viemoira's Sir likes the OTK spankings and Spirted One's doesn't. It just goes to show how there's a wide range of interest in various types of spankings.
Oatmeal Girl: Yes, I can imagine your opinion doesn't matter. I think it's common for subs to sob during an effective spanking. but then to be turned on thinking about it later. And I can imagine you didn't forget the important feature after that.
And thanks to all the readers for your comments.
FD
obviously i'm late to the convo, but i like otk. i like being completely naked for otk...feeling his clothing pressed against my torso, my tits pressed against the couch/bed or hanging off.
ReplyDeletewhat drives my absolutely out of my head is otk-fisting! i'm having a hard time keeping my composure thinking about it, especially after reading your Training Lisa series. *yummy*