Friday, February 25, 2011

Is Sex Better for Women than Men?

I know there is no real answer to this question because the experiences can be so different. And women can get the short end of the stick if they have a partner who doesn't care about giving them pleasure. And women tend to need to feel loved and treated well if they are to really enjoy sex.

But I suspect for women in a loving relationship and partner who cares about their needs, sex is better than it is for men. Women have more erogoneous zones and they tend to have nultiple orgrams easier than men.

Anyway, that is my thought. Agree or disagree? I would love to hear your feedback.

FD

12 comments:

  1. I agree - I think women do have more opportunity to have better sex. For most men, its one shot and you're done for a while.

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  2. Yep, I think all of those multiple orgasms definitely give us the advantage. But then perhaps it's nature's way of apologising for childbirth!

    J.

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  3. Sheen: So true about the one shot.

    J: Loved your line that it is nature's way of apologizing for childbirth.

    Mouse: Yes, hard to top J's line.

    FD

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  4. Yes sex is better for women, at least this one. I love being multi-orgasmic and with the right partner its amazing!

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  5. I would have to agree that sex is better for women.]

    As for that being nature's way of apologizing...eh, maybe so. But really I've never noticed nature being the slightest bit apologetic for anything~~~

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  6. I don't necessarily think its BETTER. I do, however think that its more FULFILLING.
    As much as we like to deny it, sex is chemical for women, moreso than with men. For me, sex is an animal instict, something they are driven to get, if you will. But women use sex as a way to gauge relationships, if you will. We chemically become attached to someone after sex. Like I said, as much as we deny it, it happens.
    And I think that’s a MAJOR part of why we have SO many erogenous zones, most of them are controlled by our AMAZING brains, and can move at will.
    So it may not be ‘better’ in a literal sense, but its definitely more encompassing for us.
    TA-DA!

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  7. Great question! There is no doubt in my mind that my wife's climaxes are more powerful than mine. I am envious. While she is capable of multiple orgasms, she rarely goes beyond 2 and sometimes just stops at one. But Wow! It's like the fourth of July!

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  8. I think we all agree.. Women def got the better deal in this case. =]

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  9. I have to agree with the girls! As long as your partner is a giving person, sex is amazing with all the multiple orgasms!

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  10. I have to disagree. If a woman is having multiple orgasms then her partner is getting an equal degree of pleasure. Thinking about mens orgasms only in terms of ejaculation is short changing them. If I am orgasming several times during one fuck then my partner has also the opportunity to orgasm multiple times until we are both ready for the big shot.

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  11. thesubmissivebf: I can imagine you love being multi-orgasmic.

    nancy: Good to hear you agree.

    Jen: Maybe fulfilling is a better word.

    lovetosubmit: Fourth of July a nice comparision for explosive orgasms.

    flying solo: Yes, women seem to have gotten the better deal.

    Valley Girl: Yes, it helps to have a giving partner.

    Doll: I bet the man in your life loes you having multiple orgasms.

    FD
    FD

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