Making memories

I haven't blogged yet about my wonderful weekend with my good girl. It was a delightful mixture of play time and vanilla things like walking the beach and watching a couple of Oscar nominated films and the Oscar ceremony itself.

Our playtime included my first hand spanking.  I thought it would be softer than the riding crop or the blogger but she said she felt the sting more later. I will be curious what the rest of you think of hand spankings. And I found that it was easier for her to take the flogger when I did it vertically instead of horizontally so it didn't wrap around her hips.

She also presented me with delightful Valentine's gifts, including a small mail box that she decorated with xoxo on the top, a heart, x and o on the sides and three hearts on the front. Inside were stickers reading xoxo, love you, you're the sweetest and be my valentine. And a small heart shaped box of chocolate and two pairs of boxers. One with I and the lipstick on lips with a you. And the other one with small hearts with sayings like turn me on, awesome, love you, big flirt, hug me, nice pkg, I want u, lover boy, be mine, call me, etc. Really how sweet was that?

And then there were all the simple things like going to sleep in her arms and waking up in them.

Then came the downside, having to say goodbye, holding her in my arms with her head on my chest and then her waving goodbye from her doorway. Whoever said parting is such sweet sorrow was wrong about the sweet part. It is much more bitter than sweet.

I will be counting the days until my next visit.

FD 

Finding a baby

Here's an amazing story about how a gay guy found a baby at a subway stop 12 years ago and how the judge gave him and his partner custody and now 12 years later with gay marriage legal, the same judge officiated at their marriage with the son, now 12, at the ceremony. Here is the link from the New York Times:

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/28/we-found-our-son-in-the-subway/?hp

FD 

Online dating

I found this interesting blogon Huffington Post about an attractive 50-year widow in New York City who spent a year going on about 100 online dates and blogging about them.

You wouldn't believe how clueless some of the guys are even though they are living in what is supposedly a sophisticated city. She even started holding workshops for guys who to teach them how to date.

I am sure many of the bloggers have had some bad experiences on their dates and can relate to this blog. Here's the link:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/melani-robinson/online-dating-what-i-learned-from-a-year_b_2744982.html

FD

Kinky lifestyle profiled in New York Times

Another sign that the kinky lifestyle is going more mainstream is this article in the N.Y Times. I think you will find it interesting. Here's the link:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/28/fashion/bondage-domination-and-kink-sex-communities-step-into-view.html?smid=tw-nytimes&_r=0

FD

I'm Here

Maybe it's a good omen that I had a good trip to visit my good girl without any delays and I'm at her place Friday afternoon waiting for her to get home from work.

And I found several Valentine's Day presents on the dining room table. How sweet is that.

Let the fun begin.

FD 

Keeping my right arm in good shape

I rested today after playing tennis nine times in six days. I won't be playing again before next Tuesday, but all that tennis has my arm ready for a different kind of exercise. I will be visiting my good girl Friday for a weekend stay and that means I'll be putting my arm to good use as I wield the riding crop and the flogger.

I know some bloggers say they don't think they get enough spankings. I don't think you'll hear her say that. The word she prefers to describe me in insatiable. Of course, we will also be doing a lot of other fun things, too. It should be another weekend to remember. We cherish every moment together and on Sunday we will celebrate the 22nd month anniversary of the first night we played online. In some way, it seems like yesterday. In other ways, it seems like we've always been together.

FD

A sexy gift

Here's a funny article about a guy who bought a baby doll negligee for his wife and she laughed at him. I thought it would be interesting to hear how many of you would like getting sexy lingerie for a gift or would you consider it impractical. Here's the link:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/17/fashion/seduced-by-a-gift-that-broke-the-rules-modern-love.html?src=recg

He also has some funny comments on how 30 something men are always ready for sex whether she is in a negligee or a hospital gown. He says what she's wearing, "makes zero difference to the segment of the population nown for wearing black socks during intercourse.''

Does your guy wear black socks in bed?

FD

Explaining joys of spankings

The lovely PK had an interesting discussion of spankings I thought I'd share although many of you probably read it already.

She wrote, "Even spankos aren't always crazy about the spanking while it's happening. The anticipation and the aftermath are the best parts. It's like dieting -- It's not enjoyable when you're doing it, but the results are great.''

Here's the link:

http://elisnewbeginnings.blogspot.com/2013/02/we-both-have-our-jobs-to-do.html

Is that the way most spankos feel that the anticipation and aftermath are the best parts or do you like the actual spanking better?

I will be interested in your comments.

FD

Do you like this joke?

Did you hear what the Eveready battery said to the Frito Lay potato chip?

"If you're free to lay, I'm ever ready."

FD

A Sad Story

Here's a story about a 91-year-old widow who has to sell her possessions to raise $3000 to bury her husband of 46 years.

I wish social security covered burials in cases like this.  Here's the link:

http://www.dailyfinance.com/2013/02/16/elsie-smith-estate-sale-bury-husband/?ncid=webmail1

FD

A Valentine's Day combo: Flowers and a Spanking

Did any of you get flowers and/or a spanking on Valentine's Day?

I thought they would make a perfect combination for my good girl on Valentine's Day.

And then using her trusty hitachi, she had two cums and was feeling shaky in subspace and then I had put on your cuddling shawl before I sent her to bed feeling very satiated as we exchanged "love yous.''

Now that was a Valentine's Day to remember. I hope yours was, too.

FD   

Matchmaker

Here's an interesting story about a matchmaker in New York, who says her services are better than online dating. Here's the link:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/11/nyregion/fay-goldman-is-a-matchmaker-but-dont-call-her-a-yente.html?src=recg

FD

Sex Secrets

I don't know how many of you read "Woman's Day'' but I saw this interesting article online about eight secrets of sexually satisfied couples.

They are for vanilla couples and some are obvious like scheduling sex, locking the bedroom door, communicating and experimenting.

But on this Valentine's Day, I thought you might find it interesting. Here's the link:

http://www.womansday.com/sex-relationships/sex-tips/8-secrets-of-sexually-satisfied-couples-117094?link=satisfiedcouples&dom=glo&src=syn&con=slide&mag=wdy

I would be interested in your thoughts.

FD

Renting a boyfriend

Here's an interesting article about how women in China feel so much pressure to have a man in their lives that they rent a boyfriend. Here's the link:

http://now.msn.com/rental-boyfriends-popular-for-chinese-lunar-new-year

Life is complicated all over the world.

FD

New Blogger Alert

I like to welcome new bloggers to our community so I want to introduce you to a new spanko although some of you have already discovered her.

She is Hannah and is off to a good start with her story about why she needs to be spanked. Here's the link and hope you stop by and start following her:

http://hannahgetsspanked.blogspot.com/?zx=24a4503e4307f9d4

FD

Grandmother Stands Up for Gay Grandson

Here's a feel good story about a grandmother who stood up for her gay grandson in a church.

The boy is lucky to have her as his grandmother. Here's the link:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/06/grandmother-gay-grandson_n_2625648.html?utm_hp_ref=gay-voices&icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl16%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D266945

FD 

Unhealthy Americans

Americans like to think we have a good health care system. But compared to other big countries in the world, we not only don't have a good one, but we're not as healthy as citizens in other countries.

Here's a revealing article on the subject:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/marty-kaplan/being-american-is-bad-for_b_2613222.html

FD

Spanking Survey

I thought it would be interesting to have all the spankos give their thoughts on what they like when they are spanked:

What is your favorite implement? Least favorite? Do you get maintenance spankings, spankings as foreplay or punishment spankings?

Do you like spankings that just sting and leave your butt pink or do you like them so hard that it is bright red and you can't sit down? Or something in between?

How often are you spanked? Do you wish you got more spankings?

Do you ever ask for one? And how many days can you go without before you feel the need for one?

I hope you will share your thoughts.

FD