Reunion

Twenty-seven years ago, a 16 year old woman who said she got pregnant when she was raped, hid her pregnancy and left the baby at a Burger King.


Here's the story of how they were reunited.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/25/burger-king-baby-finds-mom_n_5031032.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular


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Senior sex

One of my tennis buddies in his 70s likes to meet women on the senior site Our Time and has had some interesting experiences.


A couple of weeks ago he was dating a woman in her sixties who was divorced after being married 41 years. She loved him playing with her clit. She'd moan, "right there, right there, right there.'' She said it had never felt so good and asked how he had learned to do that. Which made him wonder if her husband had never played with her clit. He figured they were in a relationship and then a few days later she said they weren't a good match. It was over. He was stunned. Guess the good sex wasn't enough for her.  He did say he told her he didn't like her hair style because of her ringlets but that shouldn't be a deal breaker. Would love to hear her version of the story.


Now he's dating a 60 year old divorced woman who is good looking and sexy but he can't get to first base. She won't invite him to her place after dates because she lives with her daughter and grandchild and she has turned down his offers to go to his place. They've got another date tonight and he will see if anything changes. He likes her and will keep going out with her but he even wonders if he is a "filler,'' which he said means maybe she has a boyfriend and he just fills in when he's busy.


Just goes to show that no matter what the age, the relationship between the sexes remains a puzzle.


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Love story

Here's a story about a woman who met on a guy on a plane, didn't get his last name or contact info and then went looking for him on Twitter.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/20/american-airlines-twitter_n_5002840.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular


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Please hurt me more

My good girl sends me an email every morning before she calls and here is what she said a day ago:


"I had a dream about you. I dreamed we were playing and I needed more...So I asked if I could ask you a question. I stood up and laid my head on your chest and said, Sir, please hurt me more.''


I think the dream was a sign she isn't getting enough time serving me lately. We've been in a perfect storm with her not feeling well, working insanely long hours and not being able to make much noise since her niece is living with her while going to school. Which means no vibe and spankings and she has to muffle her sounds when she cums.


We haven't had as much time to spend together at night as we used to so I've decided we have to have more play time when we are together. Last night, I had her put on the pins on her nipples when she called. After a few minutes of chatting, I let her take them off and rub her clit and g spot to get wet and then had her taste her juices and insert her dildo. When she pushes it in, I always ask her what it means and she says, "You want a well fucked pussy.''  And she fucked her pussy with the dildo and she came although had to force herself not to have one of the loud noisy ones she likes.


It was a step in the right direction.


I have to make sure going forward that we don't spend too much time being vanilla when we are talking. An LDR does create more challenges but I think the dream was sending a message she needs to be more submissive.


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Play time

My good girl has been under the weather for over a week. Lots of coughing, scratchy throat, the whole nine yards. So our play time has been limited, which was especially frustrating since the niece who lives with her while she goes to college had gone home for spring break for a week. All those wasted days.

So last Saturday night, the coughing has subsided a bit and I asked her if she was ready to play. I had her put pins on her nipples and spank her pussy with a ruler, then take the pins off her nipples and put the vibe on her clit. Bingo, she came almost immediately. Then I had her to it again and another cum. And a third time until she said she was getting sore. She hadn't been feeling very horny because she hadn't been feeling well but I guess her body showed how much she missed the play time.

Since her niece was returning Sunday afternoon, we had another session around noon Sunday. This time, I went slower. Started with the pins on nipples and the pussy spanking. Then I had her take the pins off and spank her boobs and nipples. Then I had her rub her clit and g spot. That got her nice and wet and I had her taste her juices and then put some on  her boobs and pussy so the smell of her sex was in the air. Finally, I had her put the vibe on her clit and she came twice before she felt she was trembling. So I had her put on what I call her cuddling shawl and after spending some time with her for aftercare, I put her back to bed for a nap.

It is frustrating that our play time has been limited lately, especially since we are in an LDR but it was so nice to make up for lost time and to fantasize about how much we will enjoy her next visit.

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Rings on neck fetish

I don't know if you're read about the women in tribes in Thailand and Burma wear several layers of rings around their necks that seem to stretch them although it apparently pushes down on their collarbone.


Now a 28-year-old woman in Los Angeles has done the same thing. Here's the link:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/18/giraffe-woman_n_4980322.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular


It just shows there are so many different fetishes.


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How often do women have orgasms during hookup sex?

We  read about how young people like hookup sex with no strings attached.


But a survey of over 13,000 college women shows it may not be  that great for women. Only 32 per cent had orgasms on the first hookup. By the sixth time, it jumps to 51 per cent. But if a woman has slept with a guy six times, it may be getting closer to a relationship.


And if a woman didn't want a relationship with a guy, only 37 per cent had orgasms. If they were interested in a relationship with him, it jumped to 45 per cent.


Also, 18 per cent said it help to have an orgasm if they rubbed themselves besides having sex. Only 9 per cent said if helped if the guy rubbed them, which seems to show, not surprising, that women know their bodies better than men do. And 15 per cent said it helped to have anal sex as well as vaginal sex.


Here's the story on the survey, which indicates women have more orgasms in committed relationships than during hookups.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/14/female-orgasm-_n_4966621.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular


Will be interested in your thoughts about hookup sex.


Also since this is March, if you have any questions, I will be happy to try to answer.


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Looking for articles

I recently got an email from the author of


http://powerofsurrender.blogspot.com/


She said she is writing a paper for her sociology class and one of the topics is deviance.
She said it is discussing things that deviate from the cultural norms or even from subcultures.


She is thinking of writing it on the BDSM, D/s lifestyle and is looking for recent article or articles on how BDSM isn't a cultural norm. We know it isn't but she is looking for articles discussing the topic.


I told her I would blog her request in case any of my readers have articles on the subject they could send to her. Her email is powerofsurrender@gmail.com


If anybody out there can help her, I am sure she would appreciate. And check out her blog. It is interesting and well done.


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Women being naked on screen

You would think actresses get accustomed to showing skin on screen. But here's the actress who does nude scene in the series "Shameless'' saying she is nothing like her on screen character and that it is weird going on a first date with a guy who's been your boobs.


It's an interesting perspective. Here's the link:


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/14/emmy-rossum-naked-shameless_n_4964403.html


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A heartwarming tale

Here's the short story of the owner of a consignment shop who heard a young woman crying in the fitting room  because he didn't have a size 22 dress to fit her for the prom.


She left without the owner getting his name but he went on Facebook to find her. What happened then is a nice tale.


Here's the link 


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/12/plus-size-prom-dress_n_4950383.html?4982498&icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl3%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D453664


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First kiss

Here's a 3 1/2 minute video shot as part of an ad campaign in which 20 strangers -- 10 couples -- were asked to kiss for the first time. It's kind of sweet as they act awkward but then get into it. Take a look:


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/11/tatia-pileva-first-kiss-strangers_n_4940669.html


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Stanford rejects kinky club

You would think universities are tolerant of alternative lifestyles, but here's a story on Stanford rejecting a kinky club even though some Ivy League schools have accepted them.


It goes to show that the kinky lifestyle has a ways to go before it becomes mainstream despite the success of "Fifty Shades of Grey.''


Here's the link"


http://www.salon.com/chromeo/article/hey_ann_coulter_did_you_hear_about_the_kinky_stanford_students/

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Ginger root on sale

I was at the supermarket today and spotted the sign that ginger root was on sale for $1 off.  I couldn't help smiling. I had never heard of ginger root until I started reading blogs. Maybe a kinky store manager decided put it on sale. LOL. I thought I'd share that with you.


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Slow sex

Here's an interesting article saying that 20 per cent of people will interrupt sex to answer the phone. Have you ever done that?


Anyway, the message is we should slow down our frantic lives to enjoy sex more. I love slow sex,. plenty of foreplay and aftercare. When my good girl is here, we usually spend much of the morning in bed.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/07/why-you-should-embrace-sl_n_4921655.html


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The six-minute cum

My good girl stayed home from work yesterday because of bad weather. She is a hard worker who wouldn't goof off because she was home but I had to take advantage of the fact she was alone so I told her to give me five minutes to 10 minutes of her lunch time.

I started with 10 spanks of her boobs and 25 of her pussy with a ruler and loved hearing her groan as she felt each stroke. That took about three figured that warmed her up and then I had her put the vibe on her clit and it wasn't long before she was moaning. And, bingo, in about three minutes, she had a loud, noisy cum. The kind I love. Then a couple minutes of after care and she was able to get back to work in 10 minutes.

But what a nice memorable break in her work day. Too bad, we can't do that in her office. Of course, I prefer long sessions but a quickie can be nice, too.

Also, March is question and answer month so if you have any questions, I will do my best to answer them.

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Compassion gap

Here's a good column about how the well off blame the poor for being poor and don't have much compassion for them.


http://www.nytimes.com/2014/03/02/opinion/sunday/kristof-the-compassion-gap.html?src=me&module=Ribbon&version=origin&region=Header&action=click&contentCollection=Most%20Emailed&pgtype=article


It is worth reading.


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Senior sex

Here's a story that it is a good idea for older married couples to keep having sexual activity even if they have to make adjustments because of their age.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/27/sex-and-marital-satisfact_n_4870013.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular


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Vibrating condom

This is the first I heard that Bill Gates and his wife have called on inventors to come up with the next generation condom that provides more sensation. Here's the story and an experimental one.


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/27/electric-eel-condom_n_4868507.html


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