Thursday, June 9, 2016

Birthday gifts

Our birthdays are one day apart and we celebrated them a week late when we recently spent 10 days together and went to a BandB for a couple of days. She is so good at getting me toys I can use on her. Like for our anniversary, she gave me a wooden paddle with five holes in it. It packs a punch. She said she could take it a little harder but a little shorter. She says I took that as an invitation to do it harder and longer. Oh, well.
Anyway, she gave me nipple clamps attached to a chain with a third clamp attached to the chain hanging down in the middle. My first naive comment was where does that third one go. Then I reaized it was for her clit or pussy lips. WOW. What a toy, Unfortunately, as I guessed she couldn't take it very long on her pussy lips. I didn't even try it on her clit. Have any of our bloggers had clamps on down there and how did they feel?. She likes pleasing me but isn't too much of a mascochist.
She also gave me rope with a book on tying knots. I don't know if I'll be able to replicate the knots in the book. And she gave me candles for wax play.
I gave her a nice necklace to wear in place of a collar which she doesn't find comfortable. And a second necklace that is made of a single round piece of steel. It looked like a BDSM collar although it was being sold at a department store. I first figured she wouln't go for that in public but then I decided she could wear it at night when she calls along wih the ben wa balls in her pussy. It kind of prepares her for me to use her before I put her to bed. I also got her a black ruler that says "spank me Sir.'' Actually, I use it to have her spank herself as part of our phone play before we end the evening. I have her spank, rub her clit and slit and then lube up her dildo and fuck herself with it -- I love her being well fucked -- and then have her put the Hitachi on her clit before she goes to bed. It's a nice way to end the evening. I also gave her LED candles. It a good birthday for candles.
We had a good time during her visit but the time just flew by. The BandB was in St. Augustine and they have some great history. They had a Thanksgiving 50 years before the Pilgrims but I guess the Pilgrims had better PR because they get more time in the history books. The Spanish, English and French all fought over St. Augustine until Spain built a fort of cocina shells that looks like stone or cement and it was never overrun although it changed hands in some treaties. And there was shopping. She has the shopping gene and loves it and they have a lot of neat stores. And the wax museum -- the first in the nation -- was quite interesting. She took some good pictures. Hope she gets time to post them.
She left with a sore pussy -- no surprise -- and bruised boobies. Like to put them on a counter and spank them with the riding crop.
We were having lunch one day and there was a TV set on some show talking about how young people tend to screw up contraception. A woman said the pill was giving her an upset stomach so her guy started taking hem. Not surprising she got pregnant. And then they said the condom goes on the twig, not on the berries. That cracked us up and we started referring to my berries which she gave a lot of attention along with my twig.
We don't get as much time together as we'd like but we really enjoy the time we get to spend together.


  1. Sounds like a wonderful time! I am not a big fan of clamps...have had them on my nipples, but nor for long...never (thank goodness) on my clit. I am thinking you bought will enjoy some bondage play..I love being tied an at His 'mercy'.
    hugs abby

  2. Sounds like you had a wonderful birthday indeed! May you have many, many more together!

  3. Sounds as if you two had an awesome birthday celebration. Not a fan of clips on any part of my body so can't give you any information there. Twigs and berries...too funny. ;)

    Hugs and blessings...Cat

  4. what an awesome birthday celebration for both of you. Time always goes fast when you're having fun.
    Hugs Lindy

  5. Hi FD, sounds like a wonderful time together and birthday celebration. I am not a fan of clamps either. Twigs and berries cracked me up too lol


  6. Hey FD.

    Sounds like you had a wonderful time together. Hope not too long before your next one.

    No on the nipple clamps not a fan at all.


  7. Hey FD, sounds like a wonderful birthday celebration for you both. Gifts are always fun - especially when both can enjoy :) Hope you get to be together again soon.