Sunday, August 7, 2011

A Submissive Woman

I found this on the site of that was written by an unknown author.

I'm not into harsh punishments, but thought the sentiment about being a strong woman who
serves from pride and strength was right on.

Your thoughts?


I am a submissive Woman

I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive
to another
in a loving relationship.
I am not weak, or stupid. I am a strong woman, with firm
and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not
serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride
and strength.
I look to my loving Master for guidance and protection,
for never
am I more complete than when he is with me.
I know that he will
protect my body, my mind, and my soul with his
strength and wisdom.

He is everything to me, as I am everything to him. His touch
awakens me and his thoughts free me. Only in serving him
do I find complete freedom and joy. His punishments are harsh,
but I accept them thankfully, knowing that he has my best
interests always foremost in his mind. If he desires my body
for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to him, and take pleasure
myself from knowing that I have brought him happiness.
However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of
any relationship. The love, the trust and sharing, the words
spoken and felt, those are all parts of this relationship.

My body is his, and if he says I am beautiful, then I am.
No matter what I look like to others, I am beautiful in his
eyes, and because of that I hold my head high...for who can
tell me that my Master is wrong in seeing the beauty in me?
If he says I am his princess, then I am that...regal and graceful,
and if I see laughter at me in the eyes of others, I do not
recognize it, for who are they to call my Master wrong?
If he says I am his toy, his slut, his tramp, then I am wanton and dirty as he wants me to be, and
if others do not see this, then it is they who are blind,
not my Master.

My mind is his, to expand, to explore, to know as only he can.
I have no secrets from him...for secrets are a thing that
would keep me from being more perfectly his. Secrets
would put a wall up between my Master and myself..
.and I do not want walls. His lessons are not always ones
I would seek on my own, but they are lessons he has
decided I need, and so I learn from him. My soul is his,
as bare to his touch as ever my skin could be when
I kneel naked at his feet. Never a moment goes by when
I do not feel his presence, be he miles away or
standing over me.

If I were to ever displease him, his displeasure would
be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any
physical pain could be. The anguish of my soul
that I feel when I disappoint him is harder to bear
than the physical anguish. I spend my days knowing
that the energy and thought he puts into our
relationship is as much for my benefit as for his,
and look forward to each lovingly crafted scene
that we do together.

His part is much harder than mine, and I know this
and am grateful that he cares enough about me to
spend his time and energy so freely on me. I have
the easier job: to feel, to experience, to let myself go
and abandon everything to him. I am his pleasure
and his responsibility, and he takes both seriously.

I am a submissive woman. I am proud to call
myself that. My submission is a gift that I do not
give lightly, and can only be given to one who
can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold.
Only to he who has that strength will I give
myself fully, because I am strong and proud.
I am a submissive woman.

author unknown


  1. Hi FD

    i had read this before somewhere and i just love it, it says it all really doesnt it.

    blossom x

  2. Florida Dom,

    I don't think I've "arrived" yet, but Daddy told me just this morning that he likes it that I'm not always compliant and that he likes a I guess he's getting what he wants, even if I'm not always submissive. I think he likes to "break" me over and over again, lol! I never seem to learn, although it's not intentional. I'm just super strongwilled, but Daddy can and will reign me in at his will.


  3. Master said to me the day I became His submisivie....submissives are not dorrmats, they are very strong. I love this, it summarizes what I strive for every day.

  4. I too have read this before. In general I agree, it paints a beautiful picture. At first I thought as Kitty (or actually I thought it was another of the many "cheesy" slave cards/pix that can be found around the ether), but it doesn't actually say anywhere in this, nor does it actually imply that submissives are doormats; I am a cheeky, strongwilled, opinionated and verbal girl -fortunately Master likes this too, just like Kitty's Daddy- I am all that, but I am also all that was mentioned in the text and it is also how I feel.
    They are not mutually exclusive in my eyes :)
    I'm a cheeky, opinionated girl that have surrendered myself in submission to my Master -but I am still me, and why would he want to change the spirit that attracted me to him in the first place? :)

  5. Sweet girl,

    Wow, you're so right! Daddy wouldn't want me to be a mindless doormat. He loves it that I have my own opinions and thoughts on anything and everything, but it's that deep craving inside of myself to be made to submit to his will that is so hot! I love it when he just tells me what we're doing or where we're going, basically I love being dominated by him, but another man trying that...NOT! As a former feminist, I still can't believe I love having a man tell me what to do:)!


  6. Kitty: Again not mutually exclusive ;) Feminism is all about women's power over making their own choices, to have an equal footing with "the men/opposition", right?
    Well, what is more feministic than making choices for- and taking charge of your sexuality? To take the power that you have over yourself and your body and choose to hand it over to someone else? To be strong enough to dare to do that?

    Forget the "women have fought for generations to be equal..."-argument. "I'm a woman with my own rights to my sexuality and body and I choose how to live with it..." well those are words that I prefer and find non-contradictory between what we feel and what we're "supposed" to do. =)

    (i've always been against feminism to be honest, i think it victimizes women as much as what it is trying to move away from, but that is a different story :P )

    1. I am actually struggling with this concept now. I have always argued for the rights of women, and advocated that women should have freedom over their bodies and mind. Yet most of my life I have found the greatest pleasure comes when I serve someone. I have just discovered this submission lifestyle and I really want to live like this. But then I think what rational woman that fights so hard to be treated as an equal to men would want to be dominated by one. How do you get past the feeling that you are crazy for wanting/longing for this lifestyle? And how do you raise your daughter to know the difference between wanting to serve and being forced to?

  7. I have read this before also. It really embodies how I feel, a strong submisive woman who wants to be tamed by the right man. Funny you should post this today, I was just about to write about this very topic.
    Thanks for posting this.

  8. Sweet girl,

    I agree with you to a certain extent, but I like to be taken against my will. It's hard to explain because Daddy doesn't rape me, but sometimes I'm not in the mood and he says too bad and then I get so HOT for that! It's his take charge dominance that I just love and it keeps me extremely happy:)!


  9. This does seem to describe very well the kind of sub I like, and want My slut to be. Who wants a doormat. There is no conquest of a doormat...grins!!!

  10. That was beautiful! Thank you for sharing! :-)

  11. yes, i have read it before too, it does encompass how i as a submissive woman feels towards my HOH. My HOH has often told me he wants to "break" me. I think they do like the challenge. And I like the dominance. But I will always have my say - my rear end might not always think i should but i do.

  12. I have also read it but can't remember where. I have yet to achieve but it gives me a goal to work toward.

    I was wondering, when might we expect another chapter of Lisa's Training. I believe its been a while.

  13. I'm not there yet either, but I'm me. And he loves me. He says I need to be tamed and he's up for the challenge.

    Doormat I most certainly am not. I do want to please him though, and I have committed to "us" 10000% and keep taking my baby steps.

  14. I've also seen this before and it certainly resonates in me. I'm as needful of training as the next and no doormat. But as others say, who wants a doormat? How boring ~~ grin!

  15. How can I find a and submissive woman for me to dominate,this is something I've been wanting to try for a very long time so what I need to learn how to do it and if so where to go please someone help me