I think we're all aware of maintenance spankings but was interested in finding a reference to maintenance sex by a sex therapist named Tammy Nelson on the Huffington Post.
She described that maintenance sex is sex is sex on the same night, in the same place, in the same way with little variation. She said couples in this phase need to work to make sex more exciting. She said couples should talk and not assume their partner knows what they want and need. She said teaching each other can create a lifetime of exotic connection. And have your partner repeat back what you said to make sure your partner understands what you mean.
This sounds like good advice and I feel that couples in D/s relationships tend not to get in a rut because they are involved in scenes.
Let me know what you think. Is D/s sex better? Do you try to avoid maintenance sex?
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