Thursday, March 14, 2013

Locked in her closet

Yes, my good girl was locked in her closet this morning. But there was nothing kinky about that.

In our LDR, we have various rituals and one of them is that she calls me every morning. It has become such a ritual that she will call me at 6:15 a.m. her time Saturday morning before I go play tennis. And then I put her back to bed after we chat and before I leave so she can sleep in. I have suggested she sleep in and skip the call but she wants to call.

Well, she had guests overnight but she still wanted to call and didn't want to explain why she would be placing a call that early in the morning. So she locked herself in her closet and called me and whispered as we had a short chat. I have to admit I had to smile at that image. And last night when she called to be put to bed, she was in bed and again whispering.

I guess our rituals have taken on more significance than we expected when we started them almost 23 months ago back when we were only texting and before we started talking on the phone.

FD




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  1. abbyMarch 14, 2013 at 10:05 PM

    Good for you...and for both of you! I think that when you are long distance, those rituals carry more importance.
    hugs abby

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    1. Florida DomMarch 15, 2013 at 9:16 AM

      Yes,Abby,I think they do carry more significance when you are long distance.

      FD

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  2. bob March 14, 2013 at 10:26 PM

    Sounds interesting. Did it take her long to get use to calling you every morning and at night at bed time and what reminders did you use if she did forget?

    Bob

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    1. Florida DomMarch 15, 2013 at 9:24 AM

      We started off texting, not calling, before we switched to the phone. I've never needed any reminders because she liked the idea right from the start. I don't think she's ever forgotten because those calls are such an important part of our day.

      You can read her blog for her thoughts on the subject:

      http://pouredoutlett.blogspot.com/

      FD

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  3. shilaMarch 15, 2013 at 4:02 AM

    I also smiled when I read that :) Mostly, because I definetly understand her. If something is ritual for me and I need to skip it, I feel like I screw up and I need to be punished for that. Even if I had permission, I feel as I didn't see to my issues correctly and didn't prepare the situation to allow our ritual to have place. So... yeah... I smiled ;) (As ussual sorry for my English :) )

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    1. Florida DomMarch 15, 2013 at 9:25 AM

      Your English is fine. And I see you understand her feelings.

      FD

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  4. blossomMarch 15, 2013 at 6:04 AM

    i speak with Master last thing at night my time and then when possible i speak to Him (sometimes i dont wake up in time lol but most of the time i do) before He goes to sleep which is early morning for me...i feel its just nice that we both finish our day off with each other.

    blossom x

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    1. Florida DomMarch 15, 2013 at 9:26 AM

      It is nice you also speak with your Master daily from different time zones.

      FD

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  5. RozMarch 15, 2013 at 6:49 AM

    This made me smile, very sweet. We have texting rules in place for when we are apart, these include first thing in the morning and bedtime.

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Florida DomMarch 15, 2013 at 9:26 AM

      Yes, when you are apart, those rituals are very meaningful.

      FD

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  6. Loki TavielMarch 15, 2013 at 9:51 AM

    Master and I aren't long distance, but I have a set time I call him every night that we don't spend together, just so we can keep each other up to date about anything going on.
    I also text him when I wake up, and when I go to bed, which is probably a more ritual for us than the calling.

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  7. ronnieMarch 15, 2013 at 10:56 AM

    Made me smile. Special and important ritual.

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  8. Aimless RamblingMarch 15, 2013 at 11:29 AM

    Rituals are a must in a LDR. I imagine it's what keeps you feeling connected.

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  9. BrookeMarch 15, 2013 at 11:40 AM

    Aw, like most have already said, this made me smile. I think it's so cute how that ritual seems to be special to the both of you. :)

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  10. UnknownMarch 15, 2013 at 3:23 PM

    I can't say that I blame her. When we had our regular good night calls (we only talked for about 5 minutes to say good night, and so we could hear each other's voices), it didn't have to be commanded or anything. Neither one of us wanted to go one night without those calls.

    *hugs*

    Turiya

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