Thursday, February 13, 2014

Roses and Thorns

You may have heard of the BDSM book, "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns.''

With my girl visiting for Valentine's Day tomorrow, I think both are appropriate. Roses and thorns should be part of her day as we spend Valentine's Day together for the first time. It's a day for lovers and how nice we will be together.

Since the cleaning lady spiffed the place up Wednesday, I then started putting out my toys for her arrival. Including:

--A flogger and riding crop. No explanation needed although she prefers hard, quick hand spanking.

--Cuffs attacked to the head of the bed to keep her arms restrained.

--Cuffs that fit to the top of the door so she can be strung up with his arms above her head.

--Nipple suckers. She gave me them for Christmas. Nice for nipple play as they enlarge in the cylinder.

--Clothespins. They sting as much taking them off as putting them on.

--The magic wand. Stimulates her clit so well. Love getting her wet and then licking those juices and feeding them to her as she sucks them off my fingers.

--Three vibrating battery operated dildos. A new addition to my collection. You know those catalogs you get in the mail selling various things. Well, the newest one had two pages of sex toys. I guess they're becoming mainstream. They had three cheap vibes so I decided to get them. Kind of redundant with the magic wand, but, hey, why not?

--Butt plug. Can't ignore her butt.

--A hog tie kit. It's already put together for easy use.

--Whipped cream. That's in the fridge. I love to suck it off her nipples.

She will also arrive wearing red panties. One of our rituals is that I pick out the panties she wears every day. Red is one of my favorites anyway, but I think it's appropriate for Valentine's Day,

Not that she wears panties or bra in the house. Or anything else for that matter except usually a bathrobe so I have easy access to her. We have a ritual as I undress her. I unbutton her blouse, and unfasten her bra and then she cups her boobs and presents them to me. Then I slide off her pants and panties and we begin. She says I am insatiable but I think she wouldn't me any other way.

I have to admit, though, that we don't all the time playing with toys. I love cuddling and fondling her so we spend a lot of time that. Even when we watch TV, I like rubbing her boobs although I have to resist not squeezing too much or they get sore. Nice soft rubbing works well.

And we will be going out to a nice French bistro Valentine's night and I will be grilling baby back ribs Saturday night.

I think we should have a fun Valentine's weekend, too. I hope you do too. And the advertisers make sure no man in America can forget Valentine's Day with all the ads they run. And I hope the guy in your life gives you some thorns or spankings to celebrate.

FD

    

28 comments:

  1. .It sounds as if you have a perfect Valentine's Day planned.

    Hope the weather doesn't put a crimp in your plans.

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    1. The weather is OK here in Florida although bit chilly but she changes planes in Atlanta so we are keeping your fingers crossed.

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  2. Seems like you have everything needed for a good time. Have fun.

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    1. Thanks. We are looking forward to it.

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  3. Sounds like a perfect weekend...enjoy every minute
    hugs abby

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    1. I hope it is perfect and hope to enjoy every minute. Thanks..

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  4. You're not the man I first met here - I do think you are now the man you always wanted to be and I couldn't be happier for you! Hope your weekend is fantastic.

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  5. Thank you for your kind words, PK. I hope the weekend is fantastic.

    FD

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  6. Sounds like a wonderful weekend is in store for you both.

    Love to both,
    Ronnie
    xx

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  7. Good to hear from you Ronnie and it looks like it will be a wonderful weekend.

    FD

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  8. Wow! That sounds lovely. I've just stumbled onto your blog from a DD blog!

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    1. Welcome to my blog. I hope you enjoy it and return.
      And good luck on your journey in the lifestyle.

      FD

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  9. It's settled... you two are going to have a great weekend!

    Love clothes pins, just saying :)

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    1. Nice to hear you love the pins. And I hope we do have a great weekend.

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  10. sounds a wonderful couple of days for you both...have a fab time FD.

    blossom x

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    1. I am hoping it will be a wonderful weekend.

      FD

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  11. That sounds perfect, and you sound very excited! I hope you have a great weekend together!

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    1. Yes, I am excited. The days we have together are precious since we are a LDR.

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  12. Have a great weekend FD, I am sure you will.... J xx

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    1. I am picking her up at the airport in about 2 1-2 hours to start what I hope will be a great weekend.

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  13. Sounds as though you have a wonderful weekend planned :) I'm so happy for you that you get to be together for Valentines Day. Have a wonderful weekend together!

    Hugs,
    Roz

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    1. Yes, being together for Valentine's Day for the first time will make it special.

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  14. what a lucky girl..and lucky FD too I think. Hope you have a lovely weekend

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    1. It was lovely. Thanks, my girl and I are lucky we found each other.

      FD

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  15. I don't know who is the most lucky.. you or her!
    Regardless... I feel sure you both had a great time and ..hey maybe you'll share some .. one of these days!

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    1. I will share some soon. It was so difficult to say goodbye.

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  16. Hope you had a great weekend with your girl. I am off to visit my Master and like you can't wait :). We will celebrate Valentines day a few days late, but it will be wonderful.

    ~faithful

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    1. Let us know how the visit went with him and have a happy late Valentine's Day.

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