You may have heard of the BDSM book, "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns.''
With my girl visiting for Valentine's Day tomorrow, I think both are appropriate. Roses and thorns should be part of her day as we spend Valentine's Day together for the first time. It's a day for lovers and how nice we will be together.
Since the cleaning lady spiffed the place up Wednesday, I then started putting out my toys for her arrival. Including:
--A flogger and riding crop. No explanation needed although she prefers hard, quick hand spanking.
--Cuffs attacked to the head of the bed to keep her arms restrained.
--Cuffs that fit to the top of the door so she can be strung up with his arms above her head.
--Nipple suckers. She gave me them for Christmas. Nice for nipple play as they enlarge in the cylinder.
--Clothespins. They sting as much taking them off as putting them on.
--The magic wand. Stimulates her clit so well. Love getting her wet and then licking those juices and feeding them to her as she sucks them off my fingers.
--Three vibrating battery operated dildos. A new addition to my collection. You know those catalogs you get in the mail selling various things. Well, the newest one had two pages of sex toys. I guess they're becoming mainstream. They had three cheap vibes so I decided to get them. Kind of redundant with the magic wand, but, hey, why not?
--Butt plug. Can't ignore her butt.
--A hog tie kit. It's already put together for easy use.
--Whipped cream. That's in the fridge. I love to suck it off her nipples.
She will also arrive wearing red panties. One of our rituals is that I pick out the panties she wears every day. Red is one of my favorites anyway, but I think it's appropriate for Valentine's Day,
Not that she wears panties or bra in the house. Or anything else for that matter except usually a bathrobe so I have easy access to her. We have a ritual as I undress her. I unbutton her blouse, and unfasten her bra and then she cups her boobs and presents them to me. Then I slide off her pants and panties and we begin. She says I am insatiable but I think she wouldn't me any other way.
I have to admit, though, that we don't all the time playing with toys. I love cuddling and fondling her so we spend a lot of time that. Even when we watch TV, I like rubbing her boobs although I have to resist not squeezing too much or they get sore. Nice soft rubbing works well.
And we will be going out to a nice French bistro Valentine's night and I will be grilling baby back ribs Saturday night.
I think we should have a fun Valentine's weekend, too. I hope you do too. And the advertisers make sure no man in America can forget Valentine's Day with all the ads they run. And I hope the guy in your life gives you some thorns or spankings to celebrate.
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