I thought it'd be interesting to conduct a survey on whether or not you sleep in the nude, why you do or don't do it and what you wear if you don't.
And if you sleep in the nude, do you feel it's sexy or just comfortable and do you do it for the other person in your life or because you like it.
Your thoughts?
FD
Notes From Beth
3 hours ago
I sleep in pajamas or a night gown, and my husband sleeps in his underwear. We have small children, so that is a factor.
ReplyDeleteNude per request - that occured after we passed the "little ones" jumping in with us guantlet. I don't miss being entangled (with the covers that is!) ; )
ReplyDeleteDepends on the weather. I love sliding in between the sheets and feeling the cool cotton against my nakedness.
ReplyDeleteThe philosopher made me sleep naked as part of his domming from afar. And then on his first visit he brought me a man's white dress shirt and made me sleep in that when it was too cold to sleep naked - or just when he felt like it. We broke up for good months and months ago, but I still sleep in his shirts when I'm not sleeping naked.
I got used to it.
I don't know that I would feel comfortable sleeping nude, it would just feel funny to me since I've never done it. I do like to sleep with very little on though, usually just panties and a tank top.
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In my previous relationship, clothing at bedtime was NOT allowed. and I hated it. I get cold at night even during the summer.
ReplyDeleteMaster permits me to wear a night gown, or even pajamas when it gets very cold (like now), but it's usually something easy to shimmy out of...
I think, he also thinks the act of getting naked is part of the fun.
In the nude most of the time,, but when it gets cold, I wear a long sleeved tee.
ReplyDeleteI hate getting all tangled up in the covers!
From before we were married, certainly long before i had any inkling of D/s, clothes in bed were not allowed, any season. There have been exceptions made for when we have house guests, nursing babies, sick children, etc. When he's out of town though, it's flannel in the winter and boxers/tanks in the summer.
ReplyDeleteI am ALWAYS cold, even on the hottest night of summer, so I always sleep with pjyamas on. I like t-shirts and PJ pants. Sometimes I'll skip the pants and go for a t-shirt and knee socks. I do sometimes sleep naked when I'm with my Master...but that's because I just fall asleep that way and not because he tells me to.
ReplyDeleteOn hot nights, I sleep nude because even the lightest nightgown seems too much. Otherwise, it is a very light nightgown. I tend to get very hot in bed (temperature wise!).
ReplyDeleteA few nights a week, I find myself sleeping naked. I am comfortable and find a sexy thrill in it, however with kids in the home I tend to sleep in some panties and muscle shirt.
ReplyDeleteI like to sleep nude but I do keep pyjamas around in case I have houseguests. When a bedroom guest stays the night I go to bed in a babydoll tank top and boy shorts, usually black. I really love the feeling of being undressed by my partner, but don't want to be in bed in too many clothes.
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At the moment I am sleeping locked up in leather but generally I wear a nightgown. Must tell you a funny story. When I was younger and married I had a full length victorian nightgown with long sleeves. I thought it was the ultimate turn off and wore it when I really didn't want sex. It never worked as it appears it was the ultimate turn on for my husband. ;-)
ReplyDeleteI have slept totally naked since I was about 15 or 16 years old. I have always hated to have clothes on anytime, but especially in bed because I move a lot and they tend to wrap around me and make me very uncomfortable. In all the years since I started sleeping nude, the only times I have worn anything was when I was a patient in a hospital, at my mother-in-laws home during the early years (I sleep naked there now) and when I am at my adult childrens homes. And even at the times I feel "required" to wear something, it is usually only panties and a tank top. Likewise my hubby (Sir/Capn) also sleeps naked and has since mid teens. We both would gladly go naked all the time if possible.
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Mostly I sleep in the nude...I find it more comfortable and accessible.
ReplyDeleteI have to sleep nude... Master's orders... hehe. Didn't like it so much at first, but it's actually quite comfortable now. I always have a pair of pj's or a nightshirt next to the bed though in case I need to get up to take care of Tornado.
ReplyDeletei've slept in the nude since i was a teenager. but like spirited one, i keep some type of pj near by. i dont like getting wrapped up like a mummy when i sleep. love getting into a freshly made bed nude.
ReplyDeletei sleep naked when i'm feeling sexy or warm. I love to sleep naked if i've just taken a bath or shaved because it feels really luxurious. I must admit in the winter, you will mostly catch me in fleece pj's though!
ReplyDeleteI guess I'll be the first man to comment here. For me its nude or in underwear. For my little slave girl though, its always nude, except on rare occasions. That is a rule of mine, but I really dont think she'd like it any other way.
ReplyDeleteI sleep in the nude cause I have a high body temp and sweat when I wear anything to bed. There is nothing worse then waking up in a pool of sweat in the middle of the night. As far as my slave goes she wears one of my tshirts that I have worn that day and nothing else.
ReplyDeleteI have to sleep naked, I get hot and hate being tangled as others have said. Master likes sleeping nude too and I love the feeling of skin on skin. I think he also likes the easy access that nudity provides to take me in the middle of the night. During winter I would prefer putting another blanket on the bed than have to put clothes on.
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Oh I love to slip between the sheets and sleep with nothing on, I find it so comfortable and love the feeling of skin to skin contact.
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Ronnie
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I sleep in the buff as does Aeon. I love the feeling of his man hood pressed against my bottom. He loves to hold my naked breast as we fall asleep.
ReplyDeleteNude in the summer, a night shirt (similar to oxfords in silk or cotton) on cool nights. I rarely close the window, so often there is a breeze. In the depths of the winter, full pajamas. Unless I have company. No matter what the weather nothing on the bottom when companies around.
ReplyDeleteI sleep in the nude and so does hubby. It is his preference. When I'm alone I wear a sleep tee.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Hermione
I sleep in panties and my hubby's t-shirts :)
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ReplyDeleteI will have to say you get the most interesting comments! I always slept in a gown or PJs - that is until I came out to Nick about the whole spanking thing. It was like flipping a switch. That was 3 1/2 years ago and I have slept nude summer and winter ever since. For a quarter of a century we slept in the same bed and almost never touched. Now in cold weather we spoon like there is no tomorrow, we even turn in unison. I love it when he puts his hands on my butt or my breast. That was a huge change in our lives and I'm still loving it.
Hugs,
PK
I'm very late to this post but I rarely sleep naked the biggest exception to this is of course when I'm with someone then I am most certainly nude. When I'm alone, it's usually pjs but if I'm feeling a little more sexy a nightie or a slip.
ReplyDeleteI've slept in the nude for years and years and years and...well, you get it! No matter how cold it gets in the Northeast, I'm nude. I hate the feeling of the clothing bunching up around me. Right now I sleep in my own bed but even when I slept w/my wife, even when our kids arrived...even when we're camping...nudie! I am vanilla (woman, lesbian relationship) but am almost ready to be with my new Sir...don't know what his sleeping requirements will be, but think he'll be fine w/what I ...don't...wear!
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i never slept completely nude consistently until with Sir and He was very demanding about such. It became comfortable and felt sexy after i got by the paranoia of self-esteem issues and also feeling i needed to be ready to jump from bed if necessary in the middle of the night. He reassured me showing me safety and His ability to protect (never had had that). Now that i have my nipples pierced i sleep only wearing His shirt. i like the smell of it after He has warn it that day and it keeps my piercings from getting caught or pulled.
ReplyDeleteThanks to everyone for commenting. I found it fascinating how many different ways we like to sleep. There doesn't seem to be a consensus. I guess it's just what works for each person or for the couple in a relationship. Anyway, thanks for everyone for sharing. I think the fun of blogging is when we all share parts of our lives. As for me, I'm a pajamas guy. I know, sounds pretty conventional, but it's the way I feel comfortable. What can I say?
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Hi...I found you via Complicated Kitten, and am enjoying reading your posts! :-)
ReplyDeleteI almost always sleep naked (except for high heels and shackles) when in my Top's bed, per his preference. When sleeping alone I usually sleep in my favorite tank top and soft jammie bottoms, although once in awhile, especially if I have just changed the sheets, I'll sleep naked just for the sheer decadence of it. When sleeping with my SO it varies, depending on my own preference.
Jade: Thanks for stopping by and saying hello. And shackles and high heels are certainly an interesting combination but I'm sure you enjoy pleasing your Top.
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