Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Being Happy

I thought this post by greengirl about friends noticing that she and her husband seem happier together now that they are in the lifestyle. Of course, they don't know about their lifestyle.


I thought it would be interesting to see if you friends commented on you being happier once you were in TTWD.



Here's the link:






FD

13 comments:

  1. Yes. My father made a comment a few years ago about how happy I seemed, and how I smiled more. (and anyone who knows me, knows I don't smile often! LOL)

    sarah

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  2. Sarah: Nice to see your father noticed how happy you were.

    FD

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  3. People have noticed the change in both Daddy and I, although a lot of Daddy's friends are very aware of our relationship, they are aware of our kink and the dynamic which we follow. My family on the other hand, do not, they see I am happy, and happier than I was before, yet they do not have any knowledge about what it is that does that.

    I know, without a doubt that it is Daddy that gives me, that brings me that happiness. Even when I talk about him, I know that I cannot stop smiling, that the feelings I have for him are clear to see. I adore him. I know that others see that even if they do not or cannot understand why.

    Regards, Daddy's Girl

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  4. Daddy's Girl: Nice to hear you say you adore him. And I recommend the readers go to your blog and read your last post for a more in depth explanations of your feelings for him.

    FD

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  5. LOL! This sure happened to me. I came out not long before the end of the school year - a horrible time for teachers! I couldn't get the grin off my face and everyone noticed! I loved it, my own delicious secret.

    Hugs,
    PK

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  6. PK: Nothing like a delicious secret.

    FD

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  7. Absolutley! We've had many comments in the past 6 years about how happy we look, "You two seem still in love after 30 years?! What's your secret?" We're not telling! ;) Sara

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  8. Sara: Nice to hear you get those comments. And wouldn't they be surprised if you told them.

    FD

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  9. Just discovered your blog, been poking around in your archive. Have only read a few entries so far, but they have been most enjoyable. Loving 'lisa training' and the post on pain was also a great read. Since I don't know what TTWD stands for, I'm not sure if my comment is relevant. I apologise if its not. I met my first and only master 2 years ago. None of my friends or family have met him, but they have all commented on what a stabilising force he has been in my life and that I'm so lucky to have him. My own mother called him to thank him for being such a good friend to me and even scolds me if I fight with him, cos she's scared I'll 'chase him away'! He alway says that if they knew the things he did to me, they might not approve of him as much. Lol. The friends I have told have been a little shocked but still prefer him to all of my ex's.

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  10. I don't think it's changed anything for us...we've always been extremely close.

    Daddy and I have had people tell us that they know why we have so many children...even in public he's always putting his arm around me, holding my hand, etc.

    Love,
    Kitty

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  11. Thank you for the mention, that is quite nice of you. It has made a huge difference for us, i think it's ironic that most people who know us see us as happier and don't notice the changes behind it.

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  12. No one has mentioned the changes in us. Hmmm, I wonder why that is? I don't know that we really act all that different in public.

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  13. untitledmana: Thanks for going back in the archives and good to hear you like the Lisa stories. I need to write more. TTWD stands for This Thing We Do, just another phrase for this lifestyle. And good to hear your Master has been a positive force in your life.

    Kitty: You are fortunate you've always been close.

    Greengirl: You welcome for the mention. I always look for interesting things to blog about. Yes, ironic that people see you happier and don't notice the changes behind it.

    Serenity: Thanks for commenting Serenity. I guess you don't act all that different in public.

    FD

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