Wife Doesn't Want Sex

Here's an interesting article about a guy who said their sex life hasn't been the same after their baby arrived. I think couples have to work on keeping their sex life exciting after the baby starts taking up so much of their time. They need couple time.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/charlie-capen/wife-wont-have-sex_b_1287248.html?ncid=webmail3

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Different Strokes for Different Folks

Painspleasure blogged that she doesn't like spankings. Particularly the OTK variety.

On the other hand, she likes watersports. And she wrote, "Being peed on and being told what a dirty filthy bitch I am whilst kneeling covered in his piss gets me going a lot. I love it. I will beg for it''

Here's the link:

http://painspleasure.blogspot.com/2012/02/trying-to-define-humiliation.html

I would think the majority of the bloggers like spankings and aren't keen on watersports. But I thought I would link to her post to show how how different people like different kinks.

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Grading the Dresses

Do you agree with the grades these women got on their Oscar dresses. Don't know why they bothered with pictures of some of the guys in tuxes but maybe our women bloggers will like them. I was impressed at how good Jane Seymour looks at 61.

http://movies.yahoo.com/photos/2012-oscars-red-carpet-report-card-slideshow/?nc

Let me know your opinions.

FD

Giving Up Hollywood to Become a Nun

Here's another Academy Award theme. How this actress gave up Hollywood to become a nun.

http://movies.yahoo.com/blogs/oscars/love-tender-mother-dolores-hart-elvis-her-big-225445357.html

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Oscar Dresses

Since it is Academy Award time, I thought it would be interesting to link to the dresses worn by the best actress winners back to Mary Pickford.

Seeing her dress and hairdo, it's interesting how fashion has changed over the years.

Also, I was struck by the stunning beauty of Grace Kelly and a young Elizabeth Taylor.

Anyway, one of my favorite parts of the show is seeing how the women are dressed. Especially if they show a lot of cleavage. Hey, what can I say, I'm a guy. Although not much cleavage showing in these pictures but thought it was interesting to check them out.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/02/22/oscars-best-actress-dresses_n_1294828.html?ncid=wsc-huffpost-cards-headline#s715204&title=Mary_Pickford_1929

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Wanting more Spankings

One frequent blog topic is women writing that they don't feel they are getting enough spankings. So I thought I would share some thoughts on the subject by two different bloggers.

The first one by faerie who writes about how her husband is giving her the spankings she needs. He said he doesn't understand why it works and she doesn't care if she ever does, but she knows it works and she feels much better.

http://faerielernstofly.blogspot.com/2012/02/stress-relief-spanking.html

The second is Mick, who spanks his wife and said four women wrote him to ask if he would write their husbands to explain why they want to embrace the domestic discipline lifestyle and even be spanked if necessary. He noted it is hard to give general guidelines because each DD relationship takes on different dynamics. But he gave some good insight.

http://husbandlytouch.blogspot.com/2012/02/letter-to-hoh.html

My comment is that I can understand some guys might not be into spanking and it might not do anything for them. But a good husband should be looking for ways to connect with his wife. If spankings can accomplish that, why not do it? The satisfaction in making your wife happy should make it worthwhile. Think of it as foreplay.

Your thoughts?

FD

More on Australian Kisses

We had some interesting answers on my questions about Australian kisses. So I thought I'd ask whether the guy in your life is eager to do them and if he likes the taste and the smell. Besides the nice taste, the smell is a special, sexy scent to me.

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Have you heard of Australian Kisses?

I had never heard of the team until Kitty used it on a post a couple of weeks back. They are kisses down under (although licking and sucking is fine, too). So here's the link:

http://kitty-sweetsurrender.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-love-australian-kisses.html

So do you want to share whether you guy gives them to you and how much you like them?

And do any of our friends in Australia want to tell us if the term is used there?

FD

Proposals

My last post was about a woman turning down a public proposal. That got me thinking. Have any bloggers turned down private proposals?

If not, it would be nice to share the story of the proposal you accepted.

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The Answer Was No

We see a lot of these public proposals go well. Here's one that didn't.

http://rivals.yahoo.com/ncaa/basketball/blog/the_dagger/post/Video-of-marriage-proposal-gone-wrong-at-UCLA-ba?urn=ncaab-wp7324

Can you imagine how he felt?

Sub Space

Dancing barez recently described herself after an intense session as:

"shaking uncontrollably in his arms.''

"In a complete daze.''

Her body "trembled uncontrollably.''

She also said she was floating and cold.

I assume this was subspace.

Here's the link:

http://underhisthumb-dancingbarez.blogspot.com/2012/02/i-have-always-been-very-guarded-about.html#comment-form

My good girl has also described herself at times as "floaty,'' "out of it,'' "somewhere else,'' "shivering'' and "cold.''

Do any of our bloggers want to share if they have similar reactions?

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Consent and the law in the UK

In the previous post, I linked to a story about a couple who were in public play and the woman was tied up naked in the backseat There were spotted and the police were called and they were arrested. You can read about it in the previous post.

Anyway, this is a link to painspleasure's blog about 16 gay men who were arrested and jailed in the UK in 1990 for consensual s@m activity which was videotaped.

Here's the link:

http://painspleasure.blogspot.com/2012/02/s-consent-and-law.html

Here's a link The Spanner Trust about defending the rights of sadomasochists of all sexual orientation and to reverse the UK court ruling. And it says a ban on extreme porn took effect in 2009.

Here's that link:

http://spannertrust.org/

Don't know what our friends across the pond think of all this. Of course, many bloggers just like to spank, but for those who engage in SM, it is a precautionary tale.

FD

Public Play

I found this on another on another site. It shows public play can have unexpected consequences.

Here's the link:

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/nationnow/2012/02/valentines-day-role-play-portland.html

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Sexy Workout

I found this video of a sexy couples workout. I thought you'd enjooy it. Anything that gives you motivation to workout more is a good idea.

http://screen.yahoo.com/bringing-sexy-to-your-workout-28273863.html

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Bloggers United for Human RightsBlogg

It's late in the day but it's still the 15th so I want to add my support to Bloggers United for Human Rights and their support for women's reproductive rights on Susan B. Anthony's birthday.

It is unfortunate that we live in a society where women's reproductive rights aren't taken for granted as a fundamental human right. Let's hope that the bloggers who started this will help make things better in the future.

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Valentine's Day Card

I found the perfect Valentine's Day card for my good girl. There was a pair of panties on the front and on the inside it said, "I've got some warm feelings for you...and they are in some really interesting places.''

I thought it was the perfect touch and when I got her card, I eagerly opened it and my first thought was did I address it to myself. And when she got mine, she wondered why did I mail her card back to her. Yes, we picked out the same card. What are the odds of that happening? We often talk about being on the same brain wave. It added some fun to our Valentine's Day.

I hope you also had a good Valentine's Day. The same card made our first memorable.

FD

Are Kelly's Nipples Showing?

I thought this clip from fans claiming Kelly Ripa's nipples were showing on her dress was kind of amusing. Here's the clip:

http://www.aol.com/video/kelly-ripas-fashion-faux-pas/517271707/?icid=maing-grid7%7Cmain5%7Cdl2%7Csec1_lnk3%26pLid%3D135292

I guess daytime TV hosts aren't supposed to wear dresses showing their nipples.

So I thought this would be a lead in to a topic. I may have asked this before but what do you think about women wearing tops showing their nipples? And do you like to wear tops showing

yours?

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Blowing His Mind

I'm sure many of you have read Kitty's post on giving blow jobs.

If you missed it, here's the link. I just redid it because it was coming up blank before:

http://kitty-sweetsurrender.blogspot.com/2012/02/blow-his-mind.html

What I found interesting is that she never had any problem with the gag reflex even though it was all new to her.

I thought I'd ask if any of you had any problem with the gag reflex and/or swallowing. And if you like it or do it to please him.

Will look forward to your observations

FD

Why You Should Be Having More Sex

I think we all like to hear we should be having more sex. Here's an explanation that it is good for your heart.

Here's the link:

http://www.everydayhealth.com/heart-health/why-you-should-have-more-sex-for-heart-health.aspx?xid=aol_eh-cardio_3_20120206_&aolcat=ESR&ncid=webmail13

So you can now call sex a heart treatment.

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Oh What a Beautiful Morning

I've often said that TTWD sessions are often much more intense than vanilla quickies. But you also need time for a good scene. And sometimes life gets in the way.

As my sub explained in her post yesterday:

http://pouredoutlett.blogspot.com/2012/02/sweet-release.html#comment-form

With her work and me away, it was a long week for us especially since we are in LDR.

But I think it makes it even more intense when you've had to go without and then you get some time to spend together. We started with a nice pussy spanking to warm her up. And then her moans as she had a few cums were music to my ears. And listening to her say things like , "I love being with you,'' "I want to give you what you want,'' "I love cuming for you,'' were an added bonus.

I had stop after an hour. We both wanted more but real life intervened again. But it was a beautiful morning and then I put her to bed last night with another cum followed by cuddling. A nice day, a day to remember, a day to savor. And I love hearing her say, "I love what you do to me.''

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Comfortable In Her Own Skin

I thought this was interesting about Christina Aguilera saying she was comfortable in her own skin.

Here's the link:

http://music.yahoo.com/blogs/stop-the-presses/christina-aguilera-talks-body-style-criticisms-says-boyfriend-175110888.html

Do any of our bloggers have problems being comfortable in their own skin?

FD