Sunday, January 20, 2019


One of the highlights of our holiday together is that I presented her with a collar. It is made of leather with a silver circle in the middle. Found it at a department store so it looks vanilla enough that she can wearit outside the house but the great thing is that she loved it and only takes it off when she showers. I love seeing her wearing it. One of my things I like is marking her but my ideas haven't worked too well.. Writing on her body with a magic marker didn't work because it came on her clothes. A string around her chest was irritating. And not having her shaves her pits only works in the winter. But I think this collar is going to work out well.
Anyway, hope you are all doing well and I will try to post more often.


Saturday, January 5, 2019

Belated Happy Holidays

Sorry I didn't wish you all happy holidays sooner. One of my New Year's resolutions has to be to blog more often and stay in touch with my old friends. Hard to believe I've been on here since 2006.
I spent Christmas with the kids and grandkids. Two of the grandkids are two and five and so much fun to be with the little ones who still believe in Santa and put out cookies for Santa and a carrot for Rudolph. Fortunately, we had rain but not snow. Living in a southern climate the last 17 or so years, I've gotten spoiled not having to deal with snow.
After a week I flew back home for a day and then left to spend New Year's Eve with my good girl. And her two dogs. The fouro of us welcomed in the new year on the couch. The two dogs have different personalities. One wants to be at one end by himself. The other one wants to be sharing our space. Being in the eastern time zone, we welcome it in twice. They show the ball dropping at Times Square live at 11 pm local time and then we did it again an hour later. Didn't like the bigger ball that doesn't seem to drop.
Hope you all had a wonderful holday season and let's hope we all have a great new year and stay in touch with our friends in the blogging world.


Friday, December 7, 2018

Sex for 365 days in a row

Saw an article about a woma had her third kid and wan't feel very sexy and her solution was to have sex every day for a year. Of course, her husband was on board with the idea and she said they did it and had many positive benefits and it helped her feel better about herself.
Can anybody imagine really doing this?
Your thoughts?

Florida Dom 

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Happy Thanksgiving

Sorry I haven't posted in ages, but wanted to wish you and yours a Happy Thanksgiving.
I will be spending the day with my good girl and we will be giving thanks that we found each other. Counting her two dogs, there will be four of us and they will want much attention as they always do.
If the weather is OK, Simone -- a pit mix -- will be eager for a walk and looking for squirrels.
Jett is an older dog we found at a rescue like Simone, a lab mix we fear was abused because he runs the other way if he sees the the leash so he is not ready for walking. We hope we will earn his trust and will be going on walks by next Thanksgiving.
Again, hope the holiday finds all of you well. I don't post often enough but think of the friends I've made here often.

Florida Dom   

Thursday, July 26, 2018

It's a dog's life

I never had much interaction or much interest in dogs. Our daughters had a cat growing up but cats are independent. The whole walking the dog thing didn't appeal much to me.
And then my good girl found a mixed pit at a shelter about a year ago and I found out why they call dogs man's best friend.
She loves to lay on her back and get belly rubs and lick your face and often wants to play. She has a ball slightly smaller than a basketball with ridges she can sink your teeth into and she wants you to try to pull it away from her which is almost impossible.
And she is smart and knows what she is supposed to do. She never climbs on our bed, for example, and she didnt take long to get housebroken. Once we started letting her sleep in a doggy bed at the foot of our bed, she used to wake up and come to my good girl's side and one of us would get up and take her out. But a couple of times, she just said go back to bed and Simone did. Now she stays in her bed until we get up.
But she will try to get away with things she knows she is not supposed to do if she thinks she can. She often has a rash on her lower belly and the vet hasn't been able to figure out the cause. Meanwhile, she likes to lick it, which we don't think is a good idea, but if we're not looking, she will. And we just say "hey" and she immediately stops. Or if she starts barking at a dog on the other side of the fence. When we open the door and say get in here, she immediately runs to the door but she seems to figure she will do it until we we tell her to stop.
And all bets are off when she sees a squirrel. She will pull on her leash trying to chase it. Of course, the squirrel just climbs a tree and all she can do it get up on her hind legs and look up at the tree. She can't figure out she will never catch one.
There are times my good girl and I disagree on dog parenting. Some days she doesn't each much and my good girl gets concerned. Maybe she is tired of the dog food or whatever. But I say no dog is going to starve when food is available even if she would prefer treats.   
Anyway, I was dubious about the idea of getting a dog, but have to admit she is fun to have around.


Pajama Man

I am spending three weeks with my good girl while she works on a big project and I am keeping your lovely dog Simone busy so she doesn't distract my good girl. So not much to report on the kinky front. But there has been one change. I am now wearing pajamas. I hadn't worn them when we've been together in the past. But her niece was visting and while I planned to get dressed before I left the bedroom in the morning, we just felt it would be more appropriate if I wore pajamas. You know in the unlikely event there was some kind of an emergency and I didn't have time to get dressed.
To my surprise, my good girl said I looked "distinguished'' coming to bed in pajamas. And so I am now wearing pajamas. Have to like that distinguished look, I guess. If they're good enough for Hugh Hefner, I guess they are good enough for me.


Tuesday, June 26, 2018

Vaginas and menstration as Twitter topics

If you are on Twitter, you might want to go to @alisonpool for her two long threads on vaginas and menstration with many women chiming in with their comments. Two topics you don't usually see on Twitter being discussed in a serious manner.