Thursday, January 28, 2016


I know texting seems to be more popular these days than talking on the phone. I can see texting for short message but to me it seems much easier to talk on the phone than to have a long texting conversation.
Anyway, here's a story in the New York Times about a woman who kept getting texts from a guy, who not only didn't call but didn't ask her out.

So what are your thoughts on texting vs. talking on the phone.


Sunday, January 24, 2016


I think it is interesting that TTWD is creeping into the mainstream media, a sign that our lifestyle is becoming more accepted. For example, Showtime has a new show called "Billions'' about a U.S. attorney pursuing a hedge fund manager for insider training. The first scene on the first show is the attorney tied up on the floor while his wife steps on him with her high heels and then puts a cigarette out on his chest. And then at the end of the first show they are hugging and she again puts her shoe on his chest. The scenes are very short but a sign that we may be coming out of the shadows a bit.


Sunday, January 17, 2016

Real life

I wish I could write about all the exciting times we had this weekend. But, alas, my car broke down on the way to the airport Friday night and had to cancel the trip. What a letdown. I rescheduled for two weeks from now but it was such a bummer to be all ready for a trip and then have it scuttled.
We spent a lot of time on the phone this weekend and watched the first episode of the last season of Downton Abbey. I notice I spelled it Downtown in a previous post. Anyway, thought the plot line when Mrs. Hughes was worried that Mr. Carson wouldn't approve of her body when they had sex so she sent the cook to ask him if he wanted a "full marriage'' or just live together like brother and sister because she was too shy to bring it up herself. Those were different times.
We also did some play time on the phone last night. No shyness here.
My good girl also has some real life work issues in her life and she worries about them too much. I keep telling her not to worry that she has her Sir to be there for her and she should just think about serving him and pleasing him and everything else will take care of itself. I don't know if my obvious logic made much headway but I hate to see her worrying although it's a plus she shares her concerns.
Anyway, just wanted you to know that sometimes real life interferes with our best laid plans.


Thursday, January 14, 2016

The island will have to wait

We were surprised that my two tickets and the three my good girl bought were all losers in the lottery. So we won't be getting that island any time soon. And we won't be starting that foundation she talked about to help good causes. It was nice to dream even if the odds are close to 300 million to one. 
The good news is that I'll be visiting Friday night. Have my scuba gear all packed so I'll be ready to dive in -- after lots of foreplay, of course. Oh, I love diving in. Spoiler alert. I think she loves when I do it.


Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Downtown Abbey

Do any of the bloggers across the pond watch Downtown Abbey? I just read that the show ended on Christmas Day in England while in America, they've just shown the first two episodes of the final season. They end it in 1925. I wish they would have gone to the start of WWI. I find the show fascinating as a time and a place that is gone forever. The rich in the U.S. these days are probably richer than the aristocracy was in Britain and live in huge mansions but don't live in the formal style they did then. Even the servants were kind of snobs in their own right.
Anyway, I find it interesting that they waited to show it in the U.S. until after it was shown in Britain.


Bought two lottery tickets today.

I can't remember the last time I bought a lottery ticket. But with the payout at a billion dollars and no line at the gas station-convenience store, I couldn't resist a $4 "investment'' or probably a waste of money.
The good girl and I were discussing lump sum payment vs. annual payout. She said lump sum payment as most people do. But I read that for tax purposes the annual payout is a better option. By the way, I think if you get all but one number, you get a million. Hey, I'm not greedy. I'll take the million.
Instead of picking numbers, I took the ones the machine spit out.
And now I wait to see if there's a winner.


Tuesday, January 12, 2016

Buying an island

Did you hear the Powerball lottery is over a billion dollars? My good girl and I don't play the lottery because you have better chance of getting hit by lightning than winning the lottery. So we were fantasizing about what we would do with a billion dollars. She said instead of getting a condo on the beach, we could get an island of our own. Or maybe a mountain top.

Anyway, I could use scuba gear on an island. She says I need scuba gear because she says I like to "dive in'' when we are together. I guess I do tend to do that but after I do the ritual undressing of her that I have described before, I've decided to do some cuddling for foreplay before I dive in and take her. Of course, I don't usually keep my handsoff her even when watching TV although sometimes I rub er arm with too much force. She reminded me to go "lightly and softly."

I was last there New Year's night. Our schedules didn't work for us being together New Year's Eve so we spent that night on the phone. We watched the ball fall at midnight and then spent an hour talking until it was midnight in her time zone.

We exchanged Christmas presents and we went to a sex shop and she got a prostate massager. That should be interesting. She also got ben wa balls and I now have her inserting them before we talk on the phone. Another ritual and you know how I like rituals in our relationship. I love her being mine and taking her body for my pleasure and using her.

We went to the beach on a chilly day and watched a bird capture a fish.

And we had a couple of great play times. She has some new pillows and wrapped ooe of them in a garbage bag and put a towel on top of it. Alas, she didn't squirt either time although when she does it dries and leaves no trace. I can't figure out why some times she does and doesn't. But there were great sessions.

The only downside is that I got sick Monday night after I got back with some type of 24 hour flu. Somebody threw up in the jetway when the plane was loading. They stopped boarding for a half hour and supposedly disinfected it but I wonder if the germs circulated through the plane. One of the downsides of traveling.

I will be leaving Friday for another weekend visit. I already have her wearing red panties on that day when I sent her the monthly panty list. I like her wearing red panties when I first undress her.

I won't be bringing my scuba gear but will be doing a lot of diving in, I'm sure.


Friday, January 1, 2016

Happy New Year

Hope you had a good time on New Year's Eve. We watched the ball drop together by phone and since she is an hour behind me, she experienced it twice.
Will see her tonight I hope. Flight already 35 minutes late. Typical for this time of year.
Packed only a few toys, a dildo, pins, wartenburg wheel, rope, wooden spoon, rubber bands. Curious if the TSA folks open it up to check out the stuff.
She's been instructed to wear her red panties on my arrival. They are my favorites. Won't be on long after I arrive.
And I have Christmas presents too for a late Christmas.
Happy New Year to you and yours.