Thursday, May 31, 2012

Teens Ask Magazine to Stop Showing Photoshopped Models

I thought this was an interesting article showing how some teen women are aware enough to know that magazines running photos of women whose pictures have been photoshopped sends the wrong message to young women, especially ones concerned about their body image.

Here's the link:

I think it is a good sign that some young realize how harmful some of the messages they get in the media can be. And it's good to see them being proactive on the issue.



Noddy Blue likes to post pictures of vulvas and I have linked to a selection of them.

They show how different vulvas tend to be. It is almost as if no two are exactly alike. Especially the way the lips on some are open while others are tucked in like on 136, 131 and the one entitled Nothing is Found.

Would you like to share on whether your lips are open or not and whether you have any feelings one way or the other.


Thursday, May 24, 2012

Birthday Memories

We made some wonderful memories on our birthdays. I love making memories.

As I promised, there were birthday spankings two days in a row. One blogger asked what my good girl thought of that. Well, here is her answer on her blog:

As it turned out,, the timing wasn't the best. She had been dealing with a lot of issues lately. Relative issues,, car issues and she developed a nasty cough from an allergy that seettled in her chest. And it wasn't a good time of the month. So I did an undomly thing and asked her if she wanted to delay the birthday spanking Tuesday night. I wanted her in the mood. And she was. In her soft submissive voice, she said she was ready for a spanking. She got a good pussy spanking. And with the help of the hitachi on her boobs and clit, she came three times.

We then repeated it on my birthday Wednesday night but this time she got an ass spanking that left her with a very pink bottom. Love hearing her saying things like "I love you playing with my boobs, sir,'' "I love cuming for you ,sir,'' "I love giving you what you want, sir' 'and I love making you happy. sir.'' That was all music to my ears.

And I added a couple of new things to celebrate our birthdays. Not only a new morning ritual, but I've also decided to dress her once or twice a week. You should know my good girl is a very good dresser who color coordinates all of her outfits. And for the past few months, I have been having her tell me every day what she wears to work down to the color of her bra and panties. So I know her wardrobe and have decided to tell her how I want her to dress once or twice a week. Another way for her to serve me and to feel submissive to me.

Yes, we made a lot of birthday memories.


Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Happy Birthday To Us

What are the odds of my good girl and I having birthdays on consecutive day?

Well, believe it or not,, her birthday is today and mine is tomorrow. We were both so surprised
when we found that out. This is the second time we celebrated our birthdays but this is the first time we sent each other cards. A year ago, we had been playing for less than a month. Sunday will be our 13th month anniversary.

She was a newbie when we first started to talk after she blogged looking for information on the lifestyle. So we got a chance to talk for a month and get to know each other before we took the plunge.

I had offered to give her a taste if she wanted to dip her toe in the water. She seemed hesitant so I
wanted to give her time but I think she was probably looking for me to take the lead. So on April
27th a year ago when she said she was getting horny just talking about it, I decided it was time.

Well, it turns out she was ready and I think she loves the submissive lifestyle. She not only dipped
her toe in the water, she plunged in the pool from the Olympic diving board. In no time, she
was collared and proudly wearing my marks that she refreshes each day. We make the best of
being in a LDR.

I haven't had to train her or give her a list of rules. I just tell her what I want her to do and her reply usually is, "I want to make you happy.''  I love hearing those six words and she is very good at doing that. And I like being there for her whenever she has to cope with difficult times.

So with our birthdays on back-to-back days, we will double the fun and she will get birthday
spankings on both days.

As I said in the title, Happy Birthday to Us.



Sunday, May 20, 2012


Have you ever heard of sapiosexual, which is being attracted to someone because of their intelligence.

A couple of bloggers have mentioned it recently and I found this definition?

Here's the link:

What are your thoughts?


Friday, May 18, 2012

Hefner's Kitchen

Most of you have heard of the Playboy Mansion and the life Hugh Hefner lives there with too many women to count.

But what count my eye is this story that he has a fully staffed kitchen 24 hours a day with top-notch chefs even though he is not that much of a gourmet eater.

I've often thought that being rich is overrated. Can you be happier in a mansion than a 2500 square
foot house? Does driving a Porsche instead of a Camry make you happier? The one advantage for me would be to have a private plane and not have to deal with TSA security. And the second would be the idea of having your own fully staffed kitchen. I would be eating a lot of lobster, dover sole, rack of lamb and veal francaise.

Anyway, here's the link. Don't know if you find this as interesting as I do but I thought I'd share it.


Thursday, May 17, 2012

Dating Site

Did you know there was a dating site for supposedly beautiful people? And that they supposedly booted 30,000 people off for not being beautiful enough although it may have been a publicity stunt.

Here's the link:

Even if you are considered beautiful by contemporary standards, would you sign up for a site that said it was for beautiful people? Aren't we obsessed enough about looks in our society?


Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mother's Day

I want to wish all the mothers out there a happy Mother's Day although we should probably be celebrating mothers more than one day a year. It may be the toughest job in the world and you tend to do it when you are young and still finding yourself.

But I also want to remember all the women out there who areen't mothers. I hate it at church when they ask all the mothers to stand up. I always think of the women who don't stand up. I know some women aren't mothers because they chose not to be and I am fine with that.

On the other hand, some women aren't mothers because they weren't able to have kids or their spouses didn't want to have kids.Or they stayed single and didn't want to be a single mother. My sister knows a woman who married a guy who told her up front he wasn't going to have kids. She married him anyway but told him contraception would be his responsibility. And maybe she thought he might change his mind. But every single time without fail, he used a condom and that never failed.

So I just want to wish a good day to all women.


Thursday, May 10, 2012

In laws

I thought it might be interesting as we near Mother's Day in the U.S.
 to discuss the in laws. Do you get along well with them or are their
problems? And if so, minor problems or major ones that affect your
relationship with your spouse.

I hope you will share your thoughts.


Monday, May 7, 2012

Men Behaving Badly

 Check out this story. An MIT grad engaged to an attractive Harvard grad and he has a thing with a teen.

Here's the link:

All you can do is shake your head.


Wednesday, May 2, 2012

Beach Reading

I was talking to a couple of guys at the beach Sunday and the wife of one of them was reading a book. I glanced at the book cover and, yes, it was Fifty Shades of Grey.

So I asked her what she thought of it. Said I'd seen the thing about it on 20-20, but obviously  didn't tell her this was a subject I knew a lot about. She said all her girl friends were talking about it so she had to check it out. She said said she knew nothing about the lifestyle and said it was "out there'' and "graphic'' but didn't seem negative about it.

Said she couldn't "give in'' like that. I wanted to tell her submission isn't giving in but didn't want to appear to know too much about the subject. I haven't read the book but it does seem to have introduced vanilla people to the lifestyle. It is interesting how some books catch on. Laura Reese wrote two very good novels -- Panic Snap and Topping From Below and neither caught on the way this one did. The fact it is beach reading -- she said it was pretty simple and easy to read -- shows how popular it has become.

Have any of you noticed your vanilla friends reading it?