Friday, November 22, 2019

More married women than men report they are satisfied with their sex lives

According to a recent survey published in the Washington Post, married women report greater satisfaction with their sex lives than men.
Don't know what to make of that but I thought I'd pass it on.
Curious what my readers think. Hopefully I still have readers since I haven't posted very often lately.
I hope to do better in the future.
Florida Dom

Wednesday, June 26, 2019

My good girl is a lawyer

I know it is forever since I have written but I couldn't really write about the main thing in our lives the past few months. After she was downsized, she decided to take the bar exam about a decade of graduating from law school and deciding she didn't want to practice law.

She decided that she would try to pass the bar to make her more employable. Finding a new job
in your 50s isn't easy. So she took an online refresher course which meant months of being at the computer 12 hours a day or so. Of course, this cut back on our play time when I did visit and even having play time on the phone. She was too focused on studying and I understood.

But I didn't want to write about it if she didn't pass. Well, I have good news. She PASSED and
was sworn as a lawyer recently. I can't tell you how proud I am of her. I've always loved the dynamic of have a smart woman who is submissive because so many people think submission is a weakness but it is really a strength that she is willing to give herself to me.

And we have started to play more and she has felt the sting of the riding crop, which is usually part of our foreplay. She even likes to feel that sting between her legs. So we are having good times again.

 Meanwhile, we are now making plans for her to move here to Florida with her two dogs by next year. We did spend about four months together last year after I had surgery to clear out an artery and we both want to live together instead of just visiting.

We are looking forward to that future and I hope I still have some readers after being away for so long. Will now try to post more and again interact with my fellow bloggers.



Saturday, March 30, 2019

Panty list

We have our rituals and one of them comes at the start of the month when I send her the panty list she is to wear for the month. I just finished it for April and thought I'd share it.
She likes knowing she is wearing the panties I picked out for her and reminds me near the end of the month that she needs a new list.
It is one of the ways she is submissive to me or, as we call it, SSO -- Serve, Submit and Obey.
It may seem like a minor thing but it part of our lifestyle.
Hope all is well with all of the bloggers and hope you are all doing well.
Florida Dom . 

Wednesday, February 13, 2019

New book on female sexuality

I was browsing the new books section at the library the other day and came across a book entitled: "Untrue: Why nearly everything we believe about women, lust and infidelity is wrong and how the new science can set us free."
It was written by a woman -- Wednesday Martin -- with a PhD from Yale so it is a serious book.
It talks about sexuality thousands of years ago and says the invention of the plough was bad for women's sex lives. Sounds crazy but the thesis is that men being stronger were better at using a
plough and women became more dependent.
Another theme is that women are wired for variety in sex.
One interesting quote: "Men are more likely to report that they are sexually satisfied if they get sex reguarly from their long term partners, women are another story."
It says married women who seek new men in their lives "aren't looking for an exit strategy or a new husband." What they were looking for was "great sex."
And the author questions the thesis that men have stronger sex drives than women do.
A review by the Atlantic says the book is "part anifesto, part cultural anthropology, part literary criticism, part memoir."
It says the book "veers in a number of directions in pursuit of proving Martin's thesis, but never abruptly or in an order that feels jarring."
My take on all this is that what many women needs are husbands who are more attentive to their needs in the bedroom.
Anyway, I thought I'd bring it to you attention. It came out last September but I didn't hear about it at the time.

Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Old spanker learning new tricks

Back when I posted more often, I mentioned that real life spanking is more difficult than fantasy. Like getting her butt a nice shade of red and want er to enjoy it but don't want to really hurt her. 
And I finally did something recently
that was so obvious I can't figure out why I didn't think of it b.efore. After spanking for a while, I said have you had enough and she said NO,
Communication is always good.
It was long ago that she told me she liked her pussy being spanked as part of foreplay although it is too sensitive for more than light taps.
So do any of you liked to be asked if you want more or does that spoil the mood for you?


Sunday, January 20, 2019


One of the highlights of our holiday together is that I presented her with a collar. It is made of leather with a silver circle in the middle. Found it at a department store so it looks vanilla enough that she can wearit outside the house but the great thing is that she loved it and only takes it off when she showers. I love seeing her wearing it. One of my things I like is marking her but my ideas haven't worked too well.. Writing on her body with a magic marker didn't work because it came on her clothes. A string around her chest was irritating. And not having her shaves her pits only works in the winter. But I think this collar is going to work out well.
Anyway, hope you are all doing well and I will try to post more often.


Saturday, January 5, 2019

Belated Happy Holidays

Sorry I didn't wish you all happy holidays sooner. One of my New Year's resolutions has to be to blog more often and stay in touch with my old friends. Hard to believe I've been on here since 2006.
I spent Christmas with the kids and grandkids. Two of the grandkids are two and five and so much fun to be with the little ones who still believe in Santa and put out cookies for Santa and a carrot for Rudolph. Fortunately, we had rain but not snow. Living in a southern climate the last 17 or so years, I've gotten spoiled not having to deal with snow.
After a week I flew back home for a day and then left to spend New Year's Eve with my good girl. And her two dogs. The fouro of us welcomed in the new year on the couch. The two dogs have different personalities. One wants to be at one end by himself. The other one wants to be sharing our space. Being in the eastern time zone, we welcome it in twice. They show the ball dropping at Times Square live at 11 pm local time and then we did it again an hour later. Didn't like the bigger ball that doesn't seem to drop.
Hope you all had a wonderful holday season and let's hope we all have a great new year and stay in touch with our friends in the blogging world.