Wednesday, January 22, 2014

Maybe the Congressman is kinky!!!

I had to smile when I read this. A Republican Congressman started a controversy by saying wives should be submissive to their husbands.

I am sure he doesn't mean it in the kinky sense that we do. Imagine if he explained it by saying he meant a 50 Shades of Grey kind of submission. Now that would have caused a stir.

The reality is that comments like this and ones talking about "legitimate rape'' help explain why women have favored every Democratic presidential candidate since 1988 when women voted for the first George Bush by one percentage point over Michael Dukakis. Obama won his two elections with a 13 point lead among women the first time and 22 points the second time. He won the male vote by a point the first time and lost males by six the second time.

Anyway, here's the link:


Tuesday, January 21, 2014

Does money buy happiness?

We all think we'd be happy making millions of dollars. Here's a tale of a guy who walked away from making millions and is happier than he was before.

They have actually done studies that you will be happier going from food stamps to say, making $50,500 to $75,000. But making $150,000 make not make you happier than making $75,000 and are living the middle class lifestyle.

But the shame of our society is so many workers are making minimum wage while their CEOs are making millions.

Your thoughts?


Sunday, January 19, 2014

No airbrushing

Here's an article about a lingerie company that ran what it said were pictures of women wearing their lingerie that weren't airbrushed. The idea was supposedly not to make young women feel insecure if they see flawless airbrushed models. 

But I thought they were still very good looking women so I don't know if these pictures made any difference in how young women feel about themselves. Here's the link:

Your thoughts.


Monday, January 13, 2014

Ten ways to improve your marriage right now

I thought you would enjoy this list of 10 ways to improve your marriage right now.

Included are stop yelling, hold hands, schedule sex and arrange weekly meetings.

Any thoughts on the list?


A story of a nice guy

Here's a letter from the mother of a three-year-old autistic daughter to the man who sat next to her on a plane ride and was so nice to her.

This is worth reading:

I bet he's a wonderful father to his own kids.


Thursday, January 9, 2014

Real life

We had a wonderful time ringing in the new year and spending five nights together.

And we had a belated Christmas and she was blown away that I put up the tree just for her. Loved surprising her and  wanted her to feel it was like Christmas even though it was a week late.

One of her presents were nipple suckers. Don't know if you've ever tried them but they are very effective. She loves to buy me toys she figures I will like.

Unfortunately, real life interfered and I got a rare cold. Talk about bad timing. I tried to brush it off but my hacking cough and changing voice gave me away. That made it a bit more difficult to have as much play time as we usually do but still much hugging and fondling. And some spankings.

It was so difficult when she had to pack up Sunday to leave. And we both found it difficult to sleep alone again and not wake up and go to bed in each other's arms. We both love fondling and cuddling and she says I am insatiable but I don't think she'd want me any other way.

The phrase that partinsg is sweet sorrow does not apply to us. There's nothing sweet about it. We are now counting the day until her next visit.


Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Wearing a steel collar in public

I was waiting at the shop to get my car repaired today when a woman walked in wearing a steel collar around her neck with a ring in the front.

I've seen pictures of these steel collars but never seen one being worn in public.

I debated whether to say anything to her and I finally said, "Do you wear that all the time?'' She said, "Yes, Sir."

I said it looks like a collar and she said, "Yes, Sir.''

Then I said something like it looks impressive and I can't remember whether she said thank you or yes sir. But she wasn't continuing the conversation so I stopped. I didn't want to make her uncomfortable but would have loved to ask her more about what it's like wearing it in public.

Do any of you wear any kind of collars in public?


Tuesday, January 7, 2014

A feel good story

Here's a feel good story on a cold winter day on a waitress who'd had a difficult childhood and got the tip of a lifetime.

Hope you enjoy it.


Monday, January 6, 2014


Are any of you into bondage. Check out this rope work:

I like bondage but don't have the knack for tying like that.


Friday, January 3, 2014