Monday, December 30, 2013

The countdown is on

The New Year will be here in about 40 1-2 hours.

But I have a bigger countdown: In about 30 hours, my girl arrives to ring in the new year with me and celebrate a belated Christmas. The stockings are hung by the chimney with care and you know the rest but I would like to add a verse about her legs being spread and his wrists being cuffed and her nipples pinned even though it's not a good rhyme. But good fun.

Anyway, I've also given her the panty assignments when she is here -- not that she will spend a lot of time wearing them. One of our rituals is I pick out what panties she wears each day so she thinks of her submission when she puts them on. But she goes without them while we are in the house together.

And a happy new year to you and yours. It will be memorable for us because it will be our first New Year's Eve together.


Thursday, December 26, 2013

Happy holidays

Hope you are having a wonderful holiday season. I spent Christmas with daughters and grandkids and we had a good time. The youngest grandson was four months old on Christmas day and is so cuddly and cute and I love holding him. We had his christening a month ago so was my second visit in as many months. On that visit, my daughter snapped a picture of me holding him in the rocking chair and we both fell asleep.

And on New Year's Eve, my good girl will arrive for a five night visit until the following Sunday. How nice to be ringing in the new year with her. Christmas Eve was our two year nine month anniversary of when she first started to submit to me and become mine. We haven't seen each other since September so we are thrilled we are going to be together again. Going to bed and waking up in her arms will be so nice again to say nothing of all the things I have planned.

And hope you are also enjoying the holiday season.


Saturday, December 21, 2013

How did pussy shaving start?

Here's an interesting clip of women talking about how pussy shaving went from being a kink to being mainstream and how many women now think having a full bush is gross.

Here's the clip:

The theory is that it began with people watching porn on their VCRs at home.

And many men seem to like it shaved so they don't get hair in their mouths although I think there is an age factor here with older women tending not to shave. I was talking to one of my tennis buddies today who is in 70s and into online dating (having his third date tonight with a woman in her 60s and is curious if she is ready to go back to his place after they have dinner) and he likes it when women don't shave.

So why do you shave or not shave?


Sex and the single girl

I found this blog on the N.Y. Times website and while it is written in a dense style, it makes some interesting points.
The main one is that college students assume their peers are having more sex than they actually are and that leads to them having more sex. It's called "pluralistic ignorance.''

To quote, "Plenty of college students think they don't have sex as much as other people do and aren't as comfortable with uncommitted sex as other people are, but generally don't wish to appear prudish, which strikes many as a social kiss of death.''

This leads to, "one or both sexual partners to act according to the perceived norm rather than to their own convictions.''

It also says, "Male and female comfort levels diverged sharply when the options moved from what people used to call "heavy petting' to oral sex and intercourse -- men were reasonably comfortable with everything, women weren't -- but the women surveyed mistakenly assumed that other women's preferences looked much more like the male preferences than their own. So, significantly, did the men. In other words, in our sexual culture, the male preference gets treated as normative even by women who don't share it, and whose own comfort levels with sex outside a committed relationship is actually substantially lower.''

It also says, "the risk of depression is much lower for women with stable relationships and a low number of overall sexual partners, a correlation which doesn't appear to anything like the same degree for men.''

Here's a link to the whole article:

I am interested in which women think about these comments if you are young or what you thought when you were young. Were you comfortable with uncommitted sex and did you engage in it because you thought it was expected?

I found it interesting that young people assumed other people were having more sex than they were  even if they weren't.


Thursday, December 19, 2013

Online dating

I don't know if any of you have done online dating but I thought you might enjoy this NY Times story about a woman and her online experiences. The comments are also worth reading.


Wednesday, December 11, 2013

PK's book has been published

I think that most of you who read my site also read PK's wonderful blog and know that she has published her first book.

Here's a link to it on Amazon:

In the interest of full disclosure, PK was a mentor who encouraged me to start blogging and helped set up by blog and we have met. She is a treasure in our community and I want to wish her the best and hope the book is a great success.

Her blog is

Congrats, PK


Sunday, December 8, 2013

Even a Master has a slow day

The local paper has a headline about a fisherman with the title, "Even a master has a slow day.''

I thought you might get a chuckle out of that. Sure the headline writer wasn't think what the people in this lifestyle think when they saw that headline.


Saturday, December 7, 2013

Illusions of the body

Here's an interesting series of nude photos, one in which the model is posed in a very sexy way and the other in which the model is posed in an unattractive way. The artist called it "Illusions of the body.''

It is interesting the same person can look so different  Pictures can be an illusion.


Monday, December 2, 2013

Surpise!! Men like to eyeball women's bodies

I had to smile at this scientific study showing men like to check out women's bodies. Did you need a study to figure that out. I figure most women already knew this. And do the women readers like to be checked out?

Oh, and no surprise, women tend to do it too.