Is Sex Better for Women than Men?

I know there is no real answer to this question because the experiences can be so different. And women can get the short end of the stick if they have a partner who doesn't care about giving them pleasure. And women tend to need to feel loved and treated well if they are to really enjoy sex.

But I suspect for women in a loving relationship and partner who cares about their needs, sex is better than it is for men. Women have more erogoneous zones and they tend to have nultiple orgrams easier than men.

Anyway, that is my thought. Agree or disagree? I would love to hear your feedback.

FD

Sex and the Quarterback

I am a bit late in following up on my last post so I have to ask did anybody here actually have sex on Super Bowl Sunday?

And I thought I'd stay on a football-sex theme. The quarterback of the New York Jets is a 24-year-old named Mark Sanchez. So for the readers over the pond or non-football fans, he is a big celebrity in the country's largest city.

And according to deadspin.com, he hooked up with a 17-year-old high school senior on New Year's Eve and went out with her a few times and she even snapped a picture of his bedroom where he was apparently showing her his etchings.

Anyway, I was curious what our readers thought of a 24-year-old rich celebrity hooking up with a 17-year-old girl? I didn't think it showed good judgment by either of them but thought she might be star-struck. Although I had to wonder where are the girl's parents?

Let me know what you think.

FD

Sex and the Super Bowl

It's common to hear wives bitch about their husbands ignoring them to watch sports on TV. Even heard the story of the wife trying to entice her husband by standing naked in front of the TV set during a game and his reaction is, "honey, you are blocking the screen.''

Anyway, I thought of that when I read about a dating site that claims men would rather have sex than watch the Super Bowl. And that women would rather watch the Super Bowl than have sex.

So I thought I'd ask for reaction. Since women post most of the comments, I will be curious what you have to say.

Also, the site says men prefer the Packers and women the Steelers. Can't figure that out.

Anyway, I often get thought provoking answers and will be curious to see what you have to say.

Fire away.

FD

Young at Heart

I got another reminder this week that there is no age limit to enjoying sexual pleasure.

A 71-year-old friend of mind was telling me he recently met a 65-year-old woman and they were watching a football game last Sunday and he decided to see if she was up for having some
fun.

He started touching her and she'd say, "Don't do that.'' But she didn't stop him. And then he got his hand inside her blouse and she said, "Here we go.'' But again, she was willing.

And when he got her bra off and was sucking on her nipples, she said, "Let's go to the bedroom.'' He actually wanted to watch the end of the game, but he couldn't pass up this opportunities. He went down on her and three orgasms later, she said she hadn't been with a man for three years. He is now curious to see where the relationship goes from here. And his last girlfriend wasn't into sex and dumped him.

When one door opens, another sometimes opens.

Hope you enjoyed this true story.

FD

Making Sex Wonderful

There were many interesting comments on my last post about the Nanny rating her lover. One of them was Poppy's comment that it's a "silly idea'' to think that "men are responsible for making sex wonderful rather than it being a joint venture.''

I thought I'd throw that out there for discussion.

I know that some men get bashed for being oafish slam bam, thank you mam lovers who don't put enough time and interest in satisfying their partner and just think about themselves. Or do most women find their lovers are considerate and want it to be a joint venture? Or are there some days when women aren't turned on regardless of what their lovers do?

My experience is that my wife warms up quickly or not at all just depending on her mood.

Your thoughts ?

FD