A Weekend to Remember

I already blogged about the start of my weekend with my good girl on my Christmas in January post. And she posted about it after I left. Here's the link:

http://pouredoutlett.blogspot.com/

She captured so well what a good time we had in our first weekend together at her place. And only our second meeting. Yes, the spankings -- although I think she has second thoughts about getting me that flogger as a stocking stuffer!!! -- and her being submissive to me and giving me what I want were so much fun. I love her being submissive to me.

But the vanilla stuff was so nice, too. We are both cuddlers and can never can seem to have enough cuddling time. It was so nice to watch TV together as we cuddled on the couch. We often watch TV together on the phone but it doesn't match watching it on her couch together.

And just having meals together was a treat. She is a very good cook and it was so nice the way, as she said, she doted on me.  And picking out meals she knew I would like.

Showering together is such a treat, too.

And checking out the beaches was so nice. As she said, I love the beach.

The only negative was having to leave after giving her that one last hug and kiss.

I hope to be back soon and as she said, she is checking out if there are any job prospects in this area.

In one her first posts on March 30, 2011 she wrote about her feelings of wanting to explore the lifestyle, "So what is this feeling? It's akin to standing at the foot of a mountain, knowing that's my learning curve. Knowing it's going to have to be climbed.''

A few days later, I wish her good luck on her journey and said that if she wished to discuss it in greater detail, she could email me.

She did and we have climbed that mountain together. I love the view from here.

FD

Chirstmas in January

I'm having a wonderful time visiting my good girl. She said she'd give me her Christmas presents when I arrived and when I walked in the door, she  still had the Christmas tree and stockings still up. How sweet was that!!!

Among other things, she gave me T-shirts reading, "I'll slap that ass 'till it's 50 Shades of Red'' and "I would cuddle you so hard.''

But the best one was the stocking stuffer -- a flogger. A good complement to my riding crop. She had already gotten two spankings before I opened the presents (don't want her to feel she is not getting enough spankings) and so I gave her No.. 3 with the flogger.

I have to admit the flogger is quite effective. She said her butt was burning and added. "What was I thinking (for getting it)?''

So I want to ask my readers how do they feel about the flogger compared to the riding crop or any other spanking implement?

 Well, I thought I'd give you an update but have to run.Still busy with cuddling,snuggling, bondage and spanking. Along with nice vanilla stuff like stopping by the beach and walking on a nature trail. And  she's even cooking for me instead of going out. She is truly my good girl.

What a weekend to remember!!!

FD  

"I'm tied up at the moment, can I return your call?''

That's what my good girl could be saying if she gets any telephone calls this weekend.

We will be meetng for the second time. The first time, about two months ago, we were both kind of anxious and nervous about meeting for the first time.

This time our anticipation is different. Here's a link to her blog as she thinks about my arrival:

http://pouredoutlett.blogspot.com/

FD

Oprah's Kink Show

I wrote a few days ago that the Oprah Winfrey Network (OWN) was going to have a show Tuesday on kink.

If you didnn't see it, Lisa Ling narrated it and it was surprisingly positive even though she is vanilla. She started out with a guy paying a Mistress to be domed, which didn't do anything for me. But then they told the story of two couples in the lifestyle. In one of them, they are both dom types so they had to adjust. I was surprised they were willing to go on camera.

And they had a psychologist talking about how BDSM couples are good at communicating. I've always felt couples in the D/s or BDSM have more intense relationships because they spend more time together in play time while vanilla couples often just have quickie sex.

Anyway, here's the link to the Oprah website with Lisa Ling talking about doing the show and also there are links to segments on the show:

http://www.oprah.com/own-ouramericalisaling/blogs/Why-Kink-from-Lisa-Ling

The show also will be show again if you get the Oprah network and want to watch it. And sorry

FD

   

Looking for a millionaire?

I was looking for the Oprah Winfrey website to write about her kink show and I got a popup for a site called "Millionaire for me.''

It has a form to fill out and says "Find your millionaire now.'' It says "We verify income. Verified single VIP millionaires in your area.'' And it says it has almost 8000 members in my area. Huh? How many millionaires can there be? It says it has "verfied single millionaires and model quality women?'' What no women millionaires?

I somehow think millionaires wouldn't have any trouble getting dates, but I thought I'd share this with you before I get back to the kink show.

FD 

Finding Shades

Costco is one of my favorite stores.  Don't know if they have a store near you but they have quality stuff at reasonable prices and they pay their workers well.  My only problem is that they have two many items I can't resist buying.

Well, I was there today and on the book table they had a boxed set of the Shades trilogy and another book called "Release Me'' that I'd never heard of but seemed to have an erotic theme. It seems that erotic fiction is becoming more mainstream now that it is at Costco. So I bought both of them.

Times seem to be changing now that Costco is into erotic fiction.

FD 

Feel Good Story

Here's a story about a man who paid for a meal for a couple at a restaurant and what happened when he returned to the restaurant three years later. Not to spoil the story but the couple was there again and there was a proposal. Hope you enjoy it. Here's the link:

http://www.cafemom.com/articles/food_party/149505/man_anonymously_buys_couple_dinner?utm_medium=sem2&utm_campaign=prism&utm_source=outbrain&utm_content=0

FD