Monday, November 17, 2014

My good girl is under the weather

One of the difficult parts of being in an LDR is not being there when she needs a good hug.

One of our rituals is that she calls every morning before she goes to work. When it was past her usual time, I realized my phone was off the hook and figured she had called and got a busy signal. I figured she was already driving to work. So I called her cell and left a message and texted her that I was sorry I missed her.

She called a half hour later to say she wasn't feeling well -- fever and scratchy throat -- and was staying home from work. I put her back to bed but it's frustrating not being there for her. I can only hope she recovers quickly.

She's due to visit Thanksgiving and I will be counting the days.

FD

Sunday, November 16, 2014

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Love Our Lurkers Day

Are you a lurker? Do you read comments and never comment. Well, this day is for you and all the other lurkers. It's Love Our Lurkers Day. We're asking the lurkers to stop by and say hello. Or give any feedback you want. I was once a lurker and was encouraged by this day to start commenting. One thing led to another and I started this blog. I have made great friends here and have met three other bloggers besides my Good Girl, the love of my life. So if you're a lurker, don't be shy. Stop by and say hello. We are a friendly community here. If you're reading the blogs, you're interesed in the lifestyle so join in. If you want you can just say hello. Or tell us something about yourself and how long you have been reading blogs and how long you have been interested in the lifestyle. You are always welcome.

FD  

Wednesday, November 5, 2014

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

Five reasons why sex is better at 50 than 25

Do the 50somethings agree with this?
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/elaine-ambrose/sex-after-50_b_6046672.html
FD

Talking about spanking with a colleague on an open mike

A California assemblyman named Michael D. Duvall was caught having this conversation on an open mike with a colleague:


"So, I am getting into spanking her''
 His colleague replied, You are?''
He said, "Yeah, I like it"
The colleague said, "Does she?''
He said, "Yeah when I spank her. She goes, "I know you like spanking me, don't ya?''
 He added, "I go, "That's because you're such a bad girl.''.
These comments were made five years and got a lot of notice recently when John Oliver played a clip of it on his HBO show. It's also on YouTube.
So I googled it and there's more. The woman he was spanking was not his wife but a lobbyist.
Reporters tried to talk to him and he fled them. He later resigned.
She is a lobbyist for a utility company and the company gave him $1,500 in campaign  contributions. The company was against a bill increasing the percentage of electricity utilities must procure from environmentally sensitive sources. Naturally, he was against the bill.
The company issued a statement saying, "The employee has denied the speculative media reports. Our investigation will be conducted to ensure not only that our policies on employee conduct are strictly adhered to, but also that our employee is treated fairly.''


During the conversation, the assemblyman also said she was going up and down stairs after sex and said "you're dripping out of me.''


Oh and in the conversation caught on the mike, he said he is having a second affair.


And the guy is a conservative Republican who opposes gay marriage. Doesn't say if he opposes gays spanking. An advocacy group said he got a 100 per cent rating from for voting for pro family legislation. A spokeswoman said, "It's unfortunate he wasn't living it out.''  


In comments on the story, somebody wrote, "Hey, who doesn't like some spanking now and then? Or frequently as the case may be.''


Unfortunately, this guy is not a good spokesman for spanking But it must not be such a taboo if the guy is bragging about it..


Postscript: The FBI conducted an investigation and said it would not pursue federal charges and the woman was reinstated (nice the woman didn't get fired which so often happens) and issued a statement, "This experience has been a professional and personal nightmare. I did nothing whatsoever illegal or unethical with former Assemblyman Duvall or anyone else.'' Her lawyer said what he said about her was a "plain old-fashioned lie'' although one person was quoted as saying their affair was the worst kept secret in Sacramento and they had been seen arm in arm in public. He was 54 and she was 36.  A staff ,member said, "He's old and fat. He's hot, blonde and about 20 years younger. He could have never gotten a woman like that before he got this job.'' She's apparently married.


FD