Making memories

I haven't blogged yet about my wonderful weekend with my good girl. It was a delightful mixture of play time and vanilla things like walking the beach and watching a couple of Oscar nominated films and the Oscar ceremony itself.

Our playtime included my first hand spanking.  I thought it would be softer than the riding crop or the blogger but she said she felt the sting more later. I will be curious what the rest of you think of hand spankings. And I found that it was easier for her to take the flogger when I did it vertically instead of horizontally so it didn't wrap around her hips.

She also presented me with delightful Valentine's gifts, including a small mail box that she decorated with xoxo on the top, a heart, x and o on the sides and three hearts on the front. Inside were stickers reading xoxo, love you, you're the sweetest and be my valentine. And a small heart shaped box of chocolate and two pairs of boxers. One with I and the lipstick on lips with a you. And the other one with small hearts with sayings like turn me on, awesome, love you, big flirt, hug me, nice pkg, I want u, lover boy, be mine, call me, etc. Really how sweet was that?

And then there were all the simple things like going to sleep in her arms and waking up in them.

Then came the downside, having to say goodbye, holding her in my arms with her head on my chest and then her waving goodbye from her doorway. Whoever said parting is such sweet sorrow was wrong about the sweet part. It is much more bitter than sweet.

I will be counting the days until my next visit.

FD 

Finding a baby

Here's an amazing story about how a gay guy found a baby at a subway stop 12 years ago and how the judge gave him and his partner custody and now 12 years later with gay marriage legal, the same judge officiated at their marriage with the son, now 12, at the ceremony. Here is the link from the New York Times:

http://opinionator.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/28/we-found-our-son-in-the-subway/?hp

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Online dating

I found this interesting blogon Huffington Post about an attractive 50-year widow in New York City who spent a year going on about 100 online dates and blogging about them.

You wouldn't believe how clueless some of the guys are even though they are living in what is supposedly a sophisticated city. She even started holding workshops for guys who to teach them how to date.

I am sure many of the bloggers have had some bad experiences on their dates and can relate to this blog. Here's the link:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/melani-robinson/online-dating-what-i-learned-from-a-year_b_2744982.html

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Kinky lifestyle profiled in New York Times

Another sign that the kinky lifestyle is going more mainstream is this article in the N.Y Times. I think you will find it interesting. Here's the link:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/28/fashion/bondage-domination-and-kink-sex-communities-step-into-view.html?smid=tw-nytimes&_r=0

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I'm Here

Maybe it's a good omen that I had a good trip to visit my good girl without any delays and I'm at her place Friday afternoon waiting for her to get home from work.

And I found several Valentine's Day presents on the dining room table. How sweet is that.

Let the fun begin.

FD 

Keeping my right arm in good shape

I rested today after playing tennis nine times in six days. I won't be playing again before next Tuesday, but all that tennis has my arm ready for a different kind of exercise. I will be visiting my good girl Friday for a weekend stay and that means I'll be putting my arm to good use as I wield the riding crop and the flogger.

I know some bloggers say they don't think they get enough spankings. I don't think you'll hear her say that. The word she prefers to describe me in insatiable. Of course, we will also be doing a lot of other fun things, too. It should be another weekend to remember. We cherish every moment together and on Sunday we will celebrate the 22nd month anniversary of the first night we played online. In some way, it seems like yesterday. In other ways, it seems like we've always been together.

FD

A sexy gift

Here's a funny article about a guy who bought a baby doll negligee for his wife and she laughed at him. I thought it would be interesting to hear how many of you would like getting sexy lingerie for a gift or would you consider it impractical. Here's the link:

http://www.nytimes.com/2013/02/17/fashion/seduced-by-a-gift-that-broke-the-rules-modern-love.html?src=recg

He also has some funny comments on how 30 something men are always ready for sex whether she is in a negligee or a hospital gown. He says what she's wearing, "makes zero difference to the segment of the population nown for wearing black socks during intercourse.''

Does your guy wear black socks in bed?

FD