Thursday, February 28, 2013

Making memories

I haven't blogged yet about my wonderful weekend with my good girl. It was a delightful mixture of play time and vanilla things like walking the beach and watching a couple of Oscar nominated films and the Oscar ceremony itself.

Our playtime included my first hand spanking.  I thought it would be softer than the riding crop or the blogger but she said she felt the sting more later. I will be curious what the rest of you think of hand spankings. And I found that it was easier for her to take the flogger when I did it vertically instead of horizontally so it didn't wrap around her hips.

She also presented me with delightful Valentine's gifts, including a small mail box that she decorated with xoxo on the top, a heart, x and o on the sides and three hearts on the front. Inside were stickers reading xoxo, love you, you're the sweetest and be my valentine. And a small heart shaped box of chocolate and two pairs of boxers. One with I and the lipstick on lips with a you. And the other one with small hearts with sayings like turn me on, awesome, love you, big flirt, hug me, nice pkg, I want u, lover boy, be mine, call me, etc. Really how sweet was that?

And then there were all the simple things like going to sleep in her arms and waking up in them.

Then came the downside, having to say goodbye, holding her in my arms with her head on my chest and then her waving goodbye from her doorway. Whoever said parting is such sweet sorrow was wrong about the sweet part. It is much more bitter than sweet.

I will be counting the days until my next visit.



  1. Master can give a hard hand the I feel for a while...not as lasting as a big paddle, tho. Master almost always uses the flogger vertically...don't forget to just drag along slowly over all her parts....yummy! (hmm, am I actually telling a Dom what do not tell Master)!
    It is so nice to read how happy the 2 of you are together!
    hugs abby

  2. Sounds like you two had a great time! :) I have different experiences with hand spankings - sometimes it does absolutely nothing, other times it hurts more than any hairbrush out there!

  3. I had no doubts that the two of you had a wonderful time together.. and that always means a hard time saying goodbye.

    Hand spankings are either easy or hard.. and I like both.. well I like the hard more but generally only after some of the easy hits. I'll take either one.. I'm greedy that way!

    Hope you have a trip already planned so you have something wonderful to anticipate!

  4. Sounds like you two had a wonderful time. I remember that feeling of parting well. It's a horrible feeling! And then its followed by the terrible longing. I guess the sweetness comes in because of all the good feelings that makes it so hard to leave in the first place.

  5. Glad you had such a great visit and hope you can get together very soon.

  6. saying good-bye is always hard...hope you get to say hello again soon...

  7. happy that you both had a wonderful time and what lovely presents you got...saying goodbye is always very difficult and painful...but hopefully you will be together soon...smiles

    blossom x

  8. Sorry I am late commenting FD. It sounds like a wonderful weekend together. I hope you are together again soon. Saying good-bye is always a wrench.

    Hand spankings can be mixed for me. If they are very hard, it can be difficult to take and I feel it for quite some time afterwards.


  9. Hope you will be together soon - it's awful saying goodbye, thank goodness there are phones!

    I love hand spankings regardless of intensity. I love the feel of skin on skin. The warmth, the closeness, the resultant exotic feelings, especially as I am always nude. We only change to an implement when Starman's hand hurts. To me, it's not the same. I'm almost drooling just thinking about it. I am too much of a wimp to try a riding crop or flogger. I'm just not ready yet.

    I only just acknowledged that I am a spanko, and it's been a revelation for me.